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When to stop HRT

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MoBrown Thu 09-Jun-16 17:16:36

I've been on HRT for 3 years now but I'd really like to come off it now. Has anyone else come off gradually? How do you know you are truly ready as I believe you might experience menopause symptoms again as you come off it? Don't want to mess my body around by stopping and starting.

Mrsdof Tue 14-Jun-16 11:03:19

I was also on HRT for around 15yrs and always said I would stay on it as long as possible. However 18 months ago I was diagnosed with Breast Cancer and had to come off it immediately! My night sweats and other symptoms came back but hey ho didn't really have much choice. Someone then suggested I try Sage tablets and they have really helped with the sweats/flushes etc. Still loved my HRT when I was on it though and as others have said thought it was a miracle pill.

narrowboatnan Sat 11-Jun-16 09:15:46

Sage tablets from H & B were my saviour when I came off HRT. Taken as per the dosage on the label.

If you use HRT please don't take Premarin. It's made from the urine of pregnant mares and the conditions they are kept in is the stuff of horror stories.

PamelaJ1 Sat 11-Jun-16 07:45:21

I had intended to stay on hrt forever, however, my brand was discontinued. The next pill made me bleed. I tried patches next but thought they made me feel unwell and gave me palpitations so gave up in Feb.
Hello hot flushes and dryness!! I am tired all the time and thanks to the government still have to work.
I have just stuck on a patch thanks to this thread so we'll see if the symptoms were real or I just imagined them. If so I will try the Dr. again, he was very supportive and sample another make. GrandMattie I want to own my body too but I want it to behave as I would like it too.
I am a beauty therapist so come into close contact with a lot of women, most of my clients are of a certain age, we have got older together. 3 of them are in their late seventies and have been on hrt forever. They look good, their skin seems good (that maybe down to me!) and they have energy. Good enough for me.

JoJo58 Fri 10-Jun-16 23:43:20

I had a hysterectomy at 35 now 58 still on HRT patches and docs happy as I am to carry on using them, I have arthritus and so will keep using them, It's down to the individual, do what suits you.

jenn Fri 10-Jun-16 22:46:12

it's so good to see so many others,like me, who have been on HRT for over 20 years.The only time I tried to come off, the quality of my life dropped drastically. The lack of sleep due to night sweats affected everything ,it was such a miserable time .Thank goodness my G.P.was understanding and allowed me to decide what I wanted.

Adnil46 Fri 10-Jun-16 21:50:35

I first started HRT when I was 38 following a hysterectomy I am now 70 and have no intention of coming off it as I believe the benefits outweigh the risks my Doctor agrees with me

farmor51 Fri 10-Jun-16 19:46:53

I have been taking it for about 15 years since an early menopause after hysterectomy at 40. I take oestrogen only. There is no breast cancer in my family, but my mum had osteoporosis, and I have the beginnings. So my allocated GP is keen for me to continue. However, every time I see a different doctor, they feel the need to lecture me about taking HR for too long. Last time I went I had to see a young locum who told me very rudely that "You have to go through the menopause at some time"! I was furious and told him I will - when I die! When I saw my "real" GP later on, He made the comment that the younger doctors take a different view of medication, but that he definitely wants me to carry on.

silverscarlett Fri 10-Jun-16 19:15:27

Like many of you on here I was on HRT for over 10 years but had breast tissue problems, so had to come off it. I weaned myself off it in increments over a period of 3 months and although I had hot flushes, I felt relieved to be off it. The focus always seems to be on whether to begin taking HRT or not and there is not a lot of information out there about when and how to stop should the need arise for medical reasons or just because it's a personal decision. There is no doubt that for many of us it is a wonder drug, but the downside is that coming off it means your body has to adjust to the drop in hormone levels in the same way as it does naturally in menopause, so unless you intend to stay on it forever, you are really only postponing the inevitable. I had no idea about this when I was first prescribed HRT (I did not ask for it, but was prescribed for medical reasons) I had presumed taking HRT meant that I would never get the symptoms! With hindsight I wish I had researched it thoroughly rather than just accepting my GP's decision to prescribe it for me.

Dillonsgranma Fri 10-Jun-16 17:06:00

The advantages far outweigh the disadvantages I think. I like having a decent head of hair, strong bones, amd young looking skin.
and no night sweats or hot flushes or mood swings!

Lazigirl Fri 10-Jun-16 16:24:20

You are absolutely right grandMattie. It should be your own decision, it is your body MoBrown, and what is right for you may not be for someone else. HRT is definitely not the elixir of youth, although it can help with some unpleasant symptoms and whether or not to take/continue with it does need careful consideration. There's lots of good advice here about gradually stopping it, and you can always review things if symptoms return.

Lindill49 Fri 10-Jun-16 16:19:34

Don't. The hormones you're taking are just replacements for what your body has been producing naturally all your life. I'll bet if a man's testosterone stopped they'd be demanding replacements! How do you think the stars keep going - Joan Collins, Jane Fonda, etc etc. I know surgery has kept their faces young but you can bet your bottom dollar that they're taking hrt. You can stay on it for ever according to what I've read.

grandMattie Fri 10-Jun-16 15:42:35

after not alter...

grandMattie Fri 10-Jun-16 15:42:01

I was on HRT for menopausal mood swings for about 5 years. I decided that i wanted to come off, as I was unhappy at having artificial hormones. I was on patches so, at the doctor's instigation, doubled the interval between the new ones gradually until i was off completely. I did have about a year's worth of hot flushes, etc., and still have the occasional one 15 years alter, but I know someone who still has them at 83!
There is no history of osteoporosis or hormone dependent breast cancer, but still I prefer owning my body. Yes, it is the elixir of youth, but I prefer being old, creaky and cranky grin
So your decision Mo is yours alone, stick by it...

Lupatria Fri 10-Jun-16 14:39:18

dillonsgranma and lazigirl - two ladies after my own heart!!
i've been on hrt [implants and then tablets] since 1995 when i had a complete hysterectomy owing to ovarian cancer.
i've had discussions with my gp about taking it and they're ok with me continuing for as long as i want.
i've looked at the pros and cons of taking it for long periods and decided that i definately don't want osteoporosis. my mother had this as did one of my friends and they both fractured bones when they had falls. not for me thank you.

Lazigirl Fri 10-Jun-16 13:31:11

There is plenty of up to date evidence about HRT if you look for it Elsie10. You don't have to rely on doctors "opinions". Good doctors will be be up to date with current research.

Elsie10 Fri 10-Jun-16 13:26:51

I went on HRT patches at the age of 49 and stopped after about 10 years. I too came off very gradually - cutting patches in half then quarters over several months. I still experienced hot flushes afterwards. My 'Breast doc' was adamant that I should stop (had a few non malignant breast lumps). Consultant seeing to my other parts (womb) said that he thought women should stay on it for ever!! Who do you believe.

I felt so well on HRT and still, 10 years on, get the odd hot flush, especially first thing in the morning. With hind sight I think I should have stayed on it - but we are in the hands of the medical profession and their opinions - I now have vaginal atrophy with its associated problems. Hey ho - they joys of getting older!!

Lazigirl Fri 10-Jun-16 13:19:05

I am amazed that so many of you have been refused HRT by your GP. My GP advised me of the risks, which I had previously researched, and I took an informed decision to continue taking HRT. Surely in this day and age we should be working in partnership with our doctor, and taking responsibility for our own health provided we are in possession of the evidence.

missdeke Fri 10-Jun-16 11:53:12

I started HRT after a hysterectomy when I was 40, I was on it for 20+ years with no side effects, my Dr also insisted it was time to come off it, so I did it very gradually over a few years. Now at 68, I am having 'tropical moments' still and my bones have deteriorated rapidly, I wish I could have stayed on it forever!

dancingnana1 Fri 10-Jun-16 11:46:04

I started the menopause when I turned 50. My sister in canada suggested I take paba500 which I got out of holland and barret. It seemed to work for me as before I was having hot flushes and mood swings. I was not on them for long .

Harris27 Fri 10-Jun-16 11:12:52

I was on hrt for for four half years after early hysterectomy I came off it because found lump in breast and it scared me the lump was just hormonal but doc said it was time to come off sister did the same both still get hot flushes but take herbal stuff for flushes now will try the telco one as afore mentioned. Thanks .

Liz46 Fri 10-Jun-16 10:18:53

I've been on HRT for over 26 years. I started on a high dose of patches (after a hysterectomy) and I felt wonderful. The dose has gradually reduced and I have tried to give it up a few times. The hot flushes are so bad I have had a panic attack at the shops so am back on the minimum dose. I still get hot flushes in the night but not so severely. I am 70 now and have no intention of giving it up.

grove1234 Fri 10-Jun-16 10:15:05

Also on HRT patches following hysterectomy at 50 continued till 69 then GP( male) stopped it Would have preferred continuing but too many other difficulties at that time to fight GP .A few years on occasional hot flush .

Pinkshoes26 Fri 10-Jun-16 10:13:35

For me taking pills is a last resort. I avoid a visit the doctors.
I have been going through the menopause for a couple of years. I have had x1 period in the last year.
Yes! had hot flushes and dizzy spells. I just keep on living.

Kiley7 Fri 10-Jun-16 10:12:56

I think I'll ask for the low dose after advice on here, Thank you

Kiley7 Fri 10-Jun-16 10:07:28

Ive booked an appointment to ask for the HRT, I've Been convinced the advantages outweigh the disadvantages, I'm nearly 49. After reading comments on here, I'm not sure now?