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honeypot43 Mon 20-Jun-16 16:21:01

I'm 73 and wonder if its normal to feel very tired in the afternoon. I do get up about 6.30am and can be fairly active in the morning, but must have a sit down and sometimes a nap in the afternoon, but feel guilty about it sad when I was working and caring for sick husband, I seemed to have much more energy

tiffaney Thu 23-Jun-16 18:04:18

Definitely ask for a blood test especially if you have other symptoms too, you have nothing to lose by it. At least it may rule out anaemia or low thyroid. I'm a 'lark' and get up at 6.00 am, sometimes need a power nap but not every day. I also have injections every 3 months for pernicious anaemia but that isn't the same as iron deficiency anaemia. I do find after 2 months though I get more tired, but everyone is different. At our GP's practice we have an annual revue over 65 which is good for picking up anything that might be wrong.

arranmum Wed 22-Jun-16 11:35:56

I would say, if it's worrying you, then have a word with your Doc, a quick blood test would rule out any deficiencies, some you may not even have thought of. My doctor found I was seriously deficient in Calcium, Magnesium, Vitamin D, Iron and my red cell count was so low I'd to have a blood transfusion. I've since been diagnosed with Crohn's disease, to put it bluntly, in one end and out the other! Seriously though, your doctor won't mind putting your mind at rest, if he's worth his salt smile

ayse Wed 22-Jun-16 09:57:21

DH usually has a sleep either early afternoons or evenings (aged 70). He is a night bird and functions much better later in the evening. I'm a relative lark and get up between 6.00 and 7.00 generally speaking, whilst going to bed at 9.00pm to read for a bit and then sleep. I dare not kip in the afternoon as I wake up feeling very grumpy and tired. Just go with your body and don't be concerned if otherwise your health is good.

f77ms Wed 22-Jun-16 07:10:02

Jinglebell is right , If I am out I don`t feel tired . I often fall asleep in the afternoon for about half an hour if I am at home and not busy . I do wake up anytime between 5-6 am unfortunately .

mumbledore Tue 21-Jun-16 20:27:14

I would recommend seeing your GP and asking to get your vitamin D levels checked, this has happened to me for the last three years and course of prescribed vitamin D tablets soon makes a difference

hulahoop Tue 21-Jun-16 19:52:37

I am younger than you I am like some of posters feel tired after a carb lunch I don't sleep through night (sound like a baby) if I am home and feel sleepy I sit and close my eyes sometimes drop off but usually just have quiet time which makes me feel better ?

Tegan Tue 21-Jun-16 18:48:20

'Motivational tiredness'. It's amazing how much energy I can summon up when something really interesting happens!Having said that, before I retired I always had an afternoon catnap [must point out I only worked in the morning].

jinglbellsfrocks Tue 21-Jun-16 18:26:14

I think tiredness can be down to boredom. I never feel my usual afternoon tiredness when I'm out anywhere.

AnnieGran Tue 21-Jun-16 18:22:40

Honeypot - Sweetie, I'm the same age and I expect at least another 20 or so years. Have a nap. The rest of Europe (except Germany) have siestas. It is amazingly good for you. Is there any reason why you shouldn't have a nap? Never mind 10 minutes - have an hour. You will feel better and live longer. Why do you feel guilty? When I retired I threw the alarm clock away (got it back because we all have times when we need to get up at a set time) and decided to sleep when I wanted through during the day.

I wonder how long it is since you stopped looking after your husband? Caring is the most exhausting thing there is and in my experience, the exhaustion of caring for my mother lasted for 2 or 3 years.

Take care of yourself and put a good afternoon sleep into your daily routine. x

janeayressister Tue 21-Jun-16 18:20:39

I always have an a nap at 4 pm, especially if I am off out. I settle down In a comfy chair and listen to the radio and have 15 mins. If I don't, and then go out, I am half asleep all night.
Churchill had power naps and so I feel that I am in good company. Absolutely no need to feel guilty.

granjura Tue 21-Jun-16 17:35:02

Worth checking your thyroid and also blood sugar. And perhaps try taking a small does of magnesium daily and see if that helps.

BBbevan Tue 21-Jun-16 17:22:00

I am borderline diabetic. The only symptom I had was tiredness, which I put down to getting older. I am 71. So if you go to the doctor's , do ask for a blood test.

Ana Tue 21-Jun-16 17:07:56

It amazes me that anyone can actually sleep for 10 minutes! It takes me about an hour to drop off at night, never mind during the day.

Welshwife Tue 21-Jun-16 17:02:43

I find if I have a proper meal at lunchtime I want a nap but either not eating or eating a very small amount with no carbs and I am much better. When we are on a long car journey I rarely eat anything or I am dozey. The doctor adjusted my blood pressure medication and I now take one at night - Rilmenidine - it has a tendency to make you sleepy - this is great as I find I am sleeping a lot longer during the night now

sussexoldbag Tue 21-Jun-16 16:45:23

I have a nap whenever i feel the need. Even when I was working i would have a 10 min zzz at lunchtime. Go with your body.

Jaxie Tue 21-Jun-16 16:22:10

All my friends of similar ages (65 - 73) complain of feeling tired during the day: I think it's normal.

dayvidg Tue 21-Jun-16 16:16:53

I've always put mine down to being used to a siesta in a past life

Indinana Tue 21-Jun-16 14:31:04

Like others on here, I sleep very badly, always waking up at least 3 times in the night and more often than not about 5-6 times. I don't always get back off to sleep quickly either, so although I might be in bed from, say, 11.00 till 7.30, I've probably only had about 5 hours sleep. Consequently I tire very easily during the day, not helped by the fact that anything involving standing (most things housework-wise!!) is very difficult because of painful feet. And I think that when you're in pain, this in itself can be tiring. So, yes, I do occasionally give in and have an afternoon nap, but on the whole I try to avoid it for fear of being even more wakeful during the night!

BlueBelle Tue 21-Jun-16 14:23:01

I m 71 and since I retired at 68 I ve often nodded of in the afternoon I often feel very tired and can really sleep anytime including good nights I can have an hour at 8pm and still sleep a full night at 11 I ve recently had blood tests and all are totally normal Dont worry we are all different I also wake early about 5 and that time stays the same what ever time i go to bed

Lilylilo Tue 21-Jun-16 14:16:57

I've always had an energy dip around 3.30 as well! I used to get home from work and need a choc biscuit and a cuppa -still do now I've retired! Sit down with a good book , cup of tea and cake or biscuit - just an hour and you'll feel revived !

whitewave Tue 21-Jun-16 13:56:44

I get up about 7ish I am then on the go apart from sitting on here until lunch at 1pm. That is a 6 hour working day. Quite enough for someone who is retired. I then more or less do what I fancy during the afternoon. This might be gardening or reading or going out whatever I fancy really.mAnd if I'm home and fancy it I might have a doze.

If I have an exceptionally busy day I tend to feel knackered the next and make allowances. No problem.

Humbertbear Tue 21-Jun-16 13:50:00

A friend of ours said he was unable to go out in the afternoons because he always needed a sleep. He now has a drink of lucozade very lunch time and takes some vitamins and he has recovered hi energy . Maybe you need a sugar boost?

jinglbellsfrocks Tue 21-Jun-16 13:28:15

I had a very busy weekend involving loads of walking. Yesterday I felt fine and walked a couple of miles to the shops and back. Today I am totally knackered. I am having a lazy day (like many others).

I find the best hours for sleeping are between midnight and 9 am. No one should rise before 9. And laziness is natural in later years.

Chill man.

Victoria08 Tue 21-Jun-16 13:00:33

I am 70 now and feel,tired every afternoon. I usually have a lie down most afternoons if possible as feel I can't go the rest of the day without one.

I am a very poor sleeper, so naturally by the afternoon I have to lie down.

Have had thyroid checked and blood tests done, all normal, so it must be down to sleep deprivation. I wake really early and can't get back of again. It's really annoying.

Would like to do more if I had lots of energy and feel I'm missing out because of it.

Or maybe I'm just getting older and lazier.

Having said that, have just returned from a yoga class, so will definitely be needing a nap later on.

henetha Tue 21-Jun-16 11:13:45

This rang such a bell with me. Tiredness is one of my biggest daily problems and I fall asleep a lot. Mind you, I am 78 so some tiredness is to be expected. But I began to have an overwhelming feeling of no energy whatsoever. I had thyroid tests which were negative, but it turned out that I am anaemic, so I now take multivits with iron. After a few weeks I started to feel better. So now, when I start to sink again I buy some more vitamins with iron and find it amazingly helpful. I hope this helps you.
I still fall asleep sometimes though!)