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TKR Tomorrow's the big day!

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path20 Fri 22-Jul-16 13:34:49

Well it's here and tomorrow I am having a total knee replacement. I am petrified to say the least, I have followed threads on here and know that hopefully all will come well in the end.
I spoke to a lady this morning who has had two new hips and two new knees. She is amazing and she gave me lots of encouragement. Why am I nearly a nervous wreck?!!!
I think it is just fear of the unknown. I'm going to be positive and do everything I am told. Is it just me or have any of you felt the same?

millymouge Wed 27-Jul-16 08:57:34

DH had his new knee 5 years ago. He lost his appetite afterwards, and it was a few day before he felt like eating again. Remember to do the excises the hospital will have given you, and the pain will gradually ease. The worst is behind you now, you will be running around in no time grin well done.

annsixty Wed 27-Jul-16 09:03:42

At least I am anticipating that initial painful period as everyone refers to it . I just hope for a relatively pain free future. I am lucky that I can take most Meds with no problem
Good wishes path20 and I really hope you soon feel better in every way. Get that sickly feeling over and start to eat and that will help. Keep chatting to us.

GandTea Wed 27-Jul-16 09:25:50

Don't worry about the initial pain, the hospital will give you plenty of pain relief. It's the physios that inflict the pain, I think they enjoy it smile

ginny Wed 27-Jul-16 10:58:37

You are right Grandtea But they are being cruel to be kind.

When I had my knees done they told me they could tell quite easily which patients were doing the exercises at home even though everbody will recover at different rates.

Glad you are coming out the other side of the op.

path20 Sat 30-Jul-16 13:25:13

Well, after a tough week of pain I'm hanging in there. I had a few hours of broken sleep last night which was good. I'm finding it very difficult to do more than just the basic exercises. I wish I could take stronger painkillers but I can't.
I keep telling myself that things will get better and I am sure they will. The pain is abating slightly. All I have done this past few days is rest in bed, ice my knee, do the exercises and hobble about now and again.
I'm sure it will all be worth it in the end.

Jane10 Sat 30-Jul-16 13:34:11

Persevere! It will be worth it in the end. I'm sorry its so painful and I wish you could have a really good night's sleep. Keep telling yourself 'this too shall pass'!

Eloethan Sat 30-Jul-16 13:35:05

Very best wishes for a speedy recovery path20.

Luckygirl Sat 30-Jul-16 15:16:54

You have all my sympathy - I had a THR and reacted badly to the pain killers, so had to manage on paracetamol, which quite frankly did nothing. I was very envious of friends who were hopping about with soppy grins on their faces under the influence of morphine etc.

It will get better, and take heart - the worst is over! smile

SueDonim Sat 30-Jul-16 15:29:58

My mum has had one hip and one knee replaced, in her 80's. She bounced back pretty well from the hip but the knee took longer to recover from. It was more painful, particularly at the front of the thigh muscle, which she said they 'stretch' during the op to make it all work, though I don't know if she's right about that.

Persistence with physio etc helped and the pain abated after a couple of weeks and she was rid of the awful knee pain, too. Her other knee has gone now but she doesn't think she'll have it replaced because it's as painful as the first one and she feels that at almost 89, she won't really get the benefit as when she was a bit younger because widespread arthritis has limited her general mobility.

I hope you soon find your knee improves a lot!

SueDonim Sat 30-Jul-16 15:31:23

'it's NOT as painful' that should read.

path20 Sat 30-Jul-16 20:18:26

I think I'm getting there. The searing constant pain is easing and I have had a brighter day today. I have now moved out of the bedroom into the lounge so I feel a little more normal.I still go back on the bed to do basic exercises and rest awhile and I do so hope this is the start of onwards and upwards. I feel drained on the slightest exertion but it is still early days.
The past week has been so, so hard.
Thank you for your support and encouragement.

Luckygirl Sat 30-Jul-16 22:40:51

Recovery from these things takes its own time and all you can do is keep up the exercises and do whatever your body is telling you. It does get better - hang on in there. I don't think that people are aware of how painful it can be after these surgeries, especially if they are not good with painkillers and have to choose between pain or vomiting, heartburn, nausea, hallucinations or whatever else the painkillers cause. It is tough but you will get there. flowers

Bellanonna Sat 30-Jul-16 23:02:51

path20. I'm glad you're still coming on here and sharing your progress with us. As you say, it really is early days yet but it looks as though that initial, really bad, pain has subsided. Like you I would have to manage on paracetamol. At the moment I'm doing lots of strengthening exercises but I don't think I'll be able to put off the op forever. By then you'll be back to yourself again and doing whatever you did before the dreaded knee pain struck. Enjoy all those books you can now read in between the painful,physio, and look forward to getting out and about before too long?

path20 Wed 03-Aug-16 10:34:24

I'm now on my eleventh day and feel I am getting there very slowly. I am still in pain but nowhere near as much as I was and just wish I could find a painkiller which would help.I am off to physio this afternoon and TBH I am not looking forward to it but I will grin and bear it as I know it is the way forward.
This TKR journey is a long one I know but it will be worth it in the end.

It's early days and I am very lucky to have a partner who is so caring.
Thank you once again for your kind words and encouragement.
I'll keep you posted.

Chrishappy Wed 03-Aug-16 11:26:28

Hi, good luck at physio, I've had 2 tkr in the last 12 months .there is a great forum for help advice and encouragement, its on a website called 'Patient' (.A green heading with a red apple on ) then go to discussion forums - knee problems, It has helped me enormously, people from all over the world chatting about their experience with tkr

Bellanonna Wed 03-Aug-16 22:41:19

Well the worst is behind you. And hopefully the website suggested by Chrishappy will help. Good luck!

path20 Sun 07-Aug-16 20:37:25

Thank you,
Yes, I have been on 'Patient' website and it is really helpful.
I'm now on Day 15 and a couple of days ago my medication was changed, The painkillers now work. Great!!!
I can now do more exercises and the pain is manageable, It is a great relief.
I walk up and down the bungalow with my crutches. I even walked up and down the patio yesterday with a smile on my face.
I can walk on my new knee and tend to use the crutches for support.
Tomorrow I have the staples out(over thirty of them)That should be fun,not.
Still it's all part of the journey, Onwards and upwards!

path20 Sat 20-Aug-16 21:37:48

It's four weeks today and things have definitely moved on.Walking with one crutch outside now and none in the house.A neighbour has loaned me a scooter so I've been out to the shopping centre and round the park. The fresh air has done me good.
The pain had subsided a lot so the exercises are easier to do. Not too long now, I hope, before I can get along without the use of crutches or any other walking aid.
There is still a way to go before I'm back to normal but the worst is over.

Jane10 Sat 20-Aug-16 21:49:07

Gosh that's good. I can't believe its been 4 weeks, but I expect it felt much longer to you. Well done!

clementine Sun 21-Aug-16 17:52:40

Good to hear you are improving daily. Its a shame you couldn't get more adequate pain relief at the beginning. I know Naproxen is supposed to be very good, taken with Omerprazole to protect your stomach . Perhaps worth thinking about for future, if you can tolerate it .

path20 Mon 22-Aug-16 10:15:56

Thank you. I take Omeprazole with the Ibuprofen.I'm trying to manage on just the Codydramol now as I don't like taking Ibuprofen long term.

annsixty Mon 22-Aug-16 11:01:03

Hi path20 I am pleased things are better for you now but sorry your first weeks were difficult and painful. I was so much luckier as I am not allergic to anything and the pain relief was ok for me.
I am 14 days post op and the District Nurse has just been to remove the dressing and take out the top stitches, just 4 and the rest will dissolve . I am on one crutch but no advice at all from anyone about anything else. I am supposed to do exercises at home until a physio appointment on September 12th. I am finding them very hard but I do my best.
Good wishes to you for the rest of your recovery, I am sure , like me, you are pleased it is all behind you.

path20 Wed 24-Aug-16 13:02:02

Hello annsixty. I'm so glad you are managing your pain. It is so important. I am lucky that I go every week to a local private hospital for physio. (NHS) They are so helpful with any concerns I have. I have been this morning and she was very happy with my 90 degree bend and managing steps. I need to work on getting my leg straight and she gave me some useful exercises to do at home, I have not been overdoing the exercises as I think sometimes you can do more harm than good. I do ice a lot, maybe half a dozen times a day at least.
You are doing well on one crutch. I don't use crutches in the house now(no stairs). This morning the physio told me one crutch is fine for short distances outside but I must use two crutches for longer distances for a little while yet.

Hope all continues to go well for you, It's a long journey but worth it in the end.
PS Can't wait to be able to stop wearing this uncomfortable compression stockings.Ten days left. Whoopee!!!!

Stansgran Wed 24-Aug-16 17:49:02

If it's any comfort DH was chatting to an orthopod (at a funeral) . The latter had had a knee replaced and DH said how long I was taking to recover from a hip op in November . Said orthopod had had his knee replaced and was astonished that it took so long to recover- he said it was six months of discomfort but a year before he felt as new. He agreed that on the other side of the fence they underestimated the trauma if that's the right word.

annsixty Wed 24-Aug-16 17:56:57

I am finding comfort in these snippets of information . It is easy to think you are behind in what you can do. I will start to take things easier I think, but at age 79 I can't afford to take too long ?