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Frustrated beyond belief.

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rubylady Sun 06-Nov-16 03:45:37

I am sat here after going to bed at half 12, snuggled up lovely and then within ten minutes the jerky movements started in my limbs and shoulders. Argh! At ten past one I got back up and had a warm bath with magnesium crystals in to relax me. Good, now feel a little better. Downstairs, have a snack and watch a bit of tele to relax (Crystal Maze). Feel sleepy, so try to fool body and just close my eyes were I am. Still no go.

I am so frustrated. How can it be impossible to fall asleep? It's no wonder that babies cry like they do when they are over tired. I tried the hot chocolate earlier, hot bath, relaxing, warming vibrating pad, having the tele on to fall asleep to. Nothing. And I have someone coming in the morning so I have to get some shut eye. This is why I don't have a social life or manage to do anything much at all. I've got the skin itchy feel-like-something-is-crawling-all-over-me feeling too. Took antihistamine. I am going insane, I am sure. Any other suggestions please before I scream the house down?

DanniRae Mon 07-Nov-16 20:00:22

Just to say I think hot chocolate has caffeine in it - not good for helping you to sleep. I also agree that your symptoms sound like restless leg syndrome and there is medication for that.

Good Luck!

Coolgran65 Mon 07-Nov-16 21:46:10

Rubylady - I have suffered from Restless Legs Syndrome 24/7 for over 30 years and one of the main criteria for this condition is that there is the uncontrollable urge to move, to walk, and this will eventually ease the symptoms. Sometimes not for long. But if the movement/walking helps it is likely to be RLS.

These are questions from the RLS Foundation Web Site to help decide if one might have RLS.

1. Do you experience the urge to move?
2. Is the need to move overwhelming to the point that you cannot resist moving your legs?
3. Will the urge to move increase if you are in a confined position?
4. Do you have symptoms both sitting and lying?
5. How long do you need to be at rest before your leg symptoms begin?
6. Do your symptoms only begin when your legs are in a specific posture?
7. How quickly do you get relief when you start moving?
8. Do your leg symptoms occur when you are walking?
9. If you have obtained relief with walking, do the symptoms ever return while you continue to walk?
10. When are your symptoms worst?
11. When you are symptoms least?
12. Do you find your symptoms are less in the morning?

rubylady Tue 08-Nov-16 03:00:55

Thanks everyone, you are all very kind. I will re look over the posts tomorrow and maybe make an appointment with the doc but I have lost faith this year.

I have put my stand up fan back in the bedroom and so far (touch wood), I have been able to get a few hours overnight and a couple in the afternoon. I do have to go to bed looking like Captain Lawrence Oates though! grin My poor doggie has to wear her jumpers too. I do think it's the sound of the fan as much as anything that distracts so might try a white noise recording or a machine.

I've managed to get enough sleep to have the decorator in yesterday and then the cleaner today so home nice and bonny now. Tomorrow though it's feet up and relax time. Thanks all. smile flowers

castle Tue 08-Nov-16 07:56:35

I think corks under the pollow stops cramp, it works. I count backwards from 100 taking of 7 at a time so makes you think or another one I try is counting the calories I have eaten that day ?

Disgruntled Tue 08-Nov-16 08:20:44

I've just read this online from the Chopra Center:
Set your bedroom aside as a room for sleeping, not texting, reading, or watching TV.
Go to sleep at the same time every night.
Make your bedroom as dark and silent as possible.
Stop major mental activity, such as work you brought home with you, two hours before bedtime.
Curtail eating two hours before bedtime.