I'm with you Izabella, it has been over 20 years for me too, although I was always a hot body even before the menopause. I wear loose sports tops which are breathable and wick away any moisture. Have you tried a spray bottle with fan attached, from Amazon or Ebay? I always have one to hand.
Chillow cooling pads in bed or on lap are helpful too. I tried a 1Tog duvet for a few weeks when the weather was freezing, but have removed it now and just cover myself with a sheet as before. Fortunately I live alone so can please myself with bedding and house temperature.
Lame Limericks (but they are funny anyway) (
Acute anxiety after death of my husband