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My Mum is seeing things and hearing voices!

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glassortwo Tue 24-Oct-17 22:33:23

Can anyone shed and light on the following, sorry its a long post.

My 84 yr old Mum fell in the garden, couldn't get up and said she had laid there for at least 30 mins, but when I got to her she was insistent that she didnt need to visit A&E, said she was fine. She had blacked her eye, sore ribs, ankle and wrist.
I week later after as she was still suffering from her ribs I insisted on taking her to A&E. She was admitted and it was found she had a pulmonary embolism.

She has been released from hospital but has started to see and hear things that are not there, she is seeing my Dad lying behind the settee for all he has been dead for almost 3 yrs. He and my SIster have been behind the chair putting on wall paper and when I questioned the fact she insisted I come and feel the wet paint. She is worried that my Dad will go outside and what will the neighbours think as they know hes dead... then whispers to me that he doesn't realise hes dead.
This week things are worse, we insisted on taking her to the Dr who did standard memory test which she passed with flying colours so not sure what I need to be asking the Dr's to be checking,

I don't think its Alzheimer's...but I may be wrong.

She lives alone.
I have just driven the 25 mins to her house as she rang me and my phone was on silent as I was in a meeting, 5 mins after the call tried to ring her back and phone was engaged, continued ringing for 40 mins and still engaged so I jumped in the car(she wont talk to anyone for more than a few minutes on the phone) after repeatedly trying to ring her on the way over still engaged, 2 mins from her house I tried again and she answer and insisted she hadnt been on the phone so I turned around and came home as she would have been upset as to why I turned up at 10pm.

I am at my wits end, I am worried that she may have a had a clot on her brain and maybe causing small strokes and its been overlooked.

Any advise please.

NfkDumpling Wed 25-Oct-17 08:13:35

Glad your mum's been correctly diagnosed now Marydoll. Doctors don't always get it right, they're only human and it's always worth getting another opinion if you have doubts. My father's doctor called me a silly daughter and dismissed my insistence that he had further tests, which proved to be advanced lung cancer. The GP had diagnosed asthma.

Marydoll Wed 25-Oct-17 08:00:28

My GP dismissed my worries about my mother having a UTI. He had been to see my mother earlier and prescribed nothing. I got a call at school from her carers saying they were very worried about her. I phoned her GP again and he said as it was teatime, the hospital wouldn't admit her until morning as she was a geriatric case, I had to wait until morning!
I phoned an ambulance and she was admitted. She did indeed have a serious UTI and was also diagnosed with Alzheimers while still in hospital. The same GP had dismissed my fears of that also, as my mother presented as very lucid when she saw him.
On a lighter note, I kept reporting incidents to the nursing staff about the hallucinations she was having.
One evening my mother told us that a helicopter with flashing lights was hovering outside her window and that there was a lot of noise and people rushing about. When we told the nurses they started laughing. It was not a hallucination, the helicopter bringing a sick patient from the Islands had landed outside her window.

MawBroon Wed 25-Oct-17 07:33:48

The consensus however is that regardless of your doctor’s apparently relaxed (?) attitude, this needs to be checked out ASAP.
Good luck!

ffinnochio Wed 25-Oct-17 07:30:33

My first thought was that your mum might have a UTI, so in agreement with the other posters. However, I wouldn’t rule out a TIA. Do you know what caused your Mum to fall? Hope you’re able to get this sorted soon, glass.

JackyB Wed 25-Oct-17 07:20:33

Sad as it is, some of these hallucinations have made me smile. Hope your mother soon returns to normal!

nanaK54 Wed 25-Oct-17 07:16:02

Another one saying UTI - my dear old mum experienced children in her bedroom and loud music all day and night.
All very distressing for you and your mum, practise nurse should be able to carry out a test

kittylester Wed 25-Oct-17 07:10:30

UTIs often won't cause a temperature and other infections can cause hallucinations. Might be worth getting her eyes checked.

baubles Wed 25-Oct-17 05:37:52

Sometimes the first sign that my MIL has an infection is hallucinations. I agree with others that it would be best to get her to the gp. Hope she recovers quickly.

Menopaws Wed 25-Oct-17 03:17:54

After an incident when her steroid dose was upped my mum had people cycling through her flat! When I told the dr he casually said it can happen and lowered the dose

MawBroon Wed 25-Oct-17 01:40:34

Absolutely agree withga (a temperature is not an infallible guide, Paw is just finished a/b’s for an UTI which was diagnosed nearly 2 weeks ago, he had no temperature -to speak of)

MissAdventure Wed 25-Oct-17 00:26:13

You could take her temperature and if its raised, she may have an infection. A urine infection is most likely to cause hallucinations, but any kind can cause them.

grannyactivist Wed 25-Oct-17 00:24:49

Honestly glass - please don't wait until next Thursday; if at all possible get your mum to A&E. My husband's gran used to get UTI's that would cause her to hallucinate and in the local care homes if the residents show signs of confusion, delirium or hallucinations the very first thing they do is a test for UTI's.
www.agingcare.com/articles/urinary-tract-infections-elderly-146026.htm

Grandma2213 Wed 25-Oct-17 00:21:57

My mother enjoyed watching a string quartet in her ward in hospital, as a result of medication. Unfortunately when she reported an intruder in the middle of the night hospital security had to be called and chaos ensued. The problem was that she appeared to be calm and lucid and gave lots of plausible details.

I hope that the situation with your mother resolves and a simple explanation is found.

Coolgran65 Wed 25-Oct-17 00:08:02

On medication my mother saw rabbits running along the curtain rails. There were folk who kept taking her to parties in the middle of the night,, making her climb out of the window (4th floor).

Nelliemoser Tue 24-Oct-17 23:45:52

Yes my first thought was something like a UTI . Particularly with older people.

Marydoll Tue 24-Oct-17 22:47:38

I also thought of a UTI. My 82 year mother told my husband she was pregnant, with smirk on her face. She was usually such a prude.

glassortwo Tue 24-Oct-17 22:47:13

My Sisters day to take her shopping and when she arrived 1st thing this morning, Mum was sat in her coat and asked where my Sister had been as she had been sat here for an age, said she had been up and ready since 2,30am

glassortwo Tue 24-Oct-17 22:45:03

I asked the question re medication Dr said the only addition was for blood thinning and he wouldnt expect it to cause any problems with her regular medication.

MawBroon Tue 24-Oct-17 22:44:47

PS A paramedic will carry the necessary “kit”on him to dip a urine specimen quicker than waiting for a doctor and a result 3 days later.

merlotgran Tue 24-Oct-17 22:43:19

X posts with ga

MawBroon Tue 24-Oct-17 22:43:15

Crossed posts but it seems great minds think alike!

glassortwo Tue 24-Oct-17 22:42:48

Grannya When we saw the Dr last week he asked for her to make an appointment with the nurse for urine and blood tests, but he didnt think that it would show anything, first appt we could get was Thursday this week.

stayanotherday Tue 24-Oct-17 22:42:42

Yes medication can cause hallucinations. Is your mother on a lot of tablets? They can react with each other as well.

MawBroon Tue 24-Oct-17 22:42:29

Sounds very like a UTI -very common in older people and can cause hallucinations. Call a doctor/ambulance if necessary.
Of course it could be vascular dementia or a TIA but either way a simple urine test will rule out the least serious (in that it is treatable)

merlotgran Tue 24-Oct-17 22:42:09

Did the doctor not check for a UTI? My mother used to suffer from them frequently and it soon became quite easy to recognise the signs......Confusion, talking nonsense, imagining things etc., etc.

A urine test followed by a course of ABs sorted things out.

I hope you soon find a solution to her problems. It's not nice feeling so helpless.