A very debatable question and one most people may find utterly distasteful.
My dear friend had parents living happily together in Sheltered housing.....both in their early 90`s.
They had lived a happy productive life and were surrounded and supported by loving family members.
The husband fell and died almost immediately last November.
The wife totally refused to accept his death and from a happy little lady she became completely changed virtually
overnight and her one wish was to die to be with her husband.
Since then she has been Hospitalised on numerous occasions,has been put into several differing Care Homes,has been a patient in a Mental Hospital .......the amount of Medics and medicines she has been given are quite ridiculous.
She has become violent,she lies,she repeats she does no longer want to live and the last few weeks has had to have her daughter at her side even in a Care Home......simply to ensure her safety as she tries breaking out of any wheelchair,climbs out of bed despite handrails,............although now being extremely frail and unable to walk even with an aid.
She refiuses to get out of bed each day, refuses to eat or drink...........despite continued Urine infections.
The cost of keeping her alive must be enormous.
She is a lady whom has lived a great life and now in her 90`s her one overriding request is to die.
Do you think these lengths to keep her alive should be taken,although costing the earth............when her one wish is to die to be alongside her husband?
It is when faced with dilemnas such as this, one seriously wonders exactly what steps should and could be justified?
The country and its attitude to such extreme cases are changing,but are we ready to accept these changes???