I am not one for slimming clubs, diets, counting, checking food amounts, following recipes etc, etc, etc. It just doesn't seem a natural way to look at food. I think we can over obsess about what we eat.
I have lost nearly a stone in a month by making a determined effort to cut down portion sizes, to eat little and often and if needed, to snack on a piece of cheese and a few almonds, for example, or a teaspoon of peanut butter now and then, with apple slices. (Protein-rich nibbles)
For me, it's about cutting out the snacks which were invariably bread/toast, and savoury things with alcohol in the evenings. I never went overboard with cakes and biscuits really.
I always go and drink a glass of water when I get a craving to 'eat', and it is a craving. I also tried to move more, to make a conscious effort to get up at least every half hour and do a job or get out in the garden.
It has been a bit of long-overdue self-discipline for me.
I also allow myself to indulge on special occasions and to have a little of what I fancy when out, etc. It's amazing how I just don't seem to want the things I used to eat because I know I really do have to have a handle on my lifestyle, lack of exercise, and diet. (I'll add that lots of on-going medication and enforced sedentary lifestyle because of a number of health issues caused me to become overweight in the first place, and then I sort of gave up on myself and let it run, finding it hard to have an incentive to fight my demise.) Low level depression I suppose and a lack of ill to change things saw the rot set in.
It really was up to me I decided. No one can do it for me. That is my thinking. I do have choices. And exercising a bit of self discipline leads to lots of small victories, which add up. I am no saint. I slip occasionally but now I know not to let one slip send me spiralling off course. It's a day by day thing and also a long term plan.
Good luck to us all, however we are tackling weight and fitness issues.