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Scared she’s not coming home

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morethan2 Sun 30-Sept-18 21:36:45

Tonight I’m scared, she might not come home. Her babies are upstairs in bed. Please don’t make my boy have to tell them she’s never coming home. Is there a god because if there is he’d stop this now.

Willow500 Sun 30-Sept-18 21:39:43

Thinking of you and wishing you strength to face what may come at this dreadful time flowers

GrannyGravy13 Sun 30-Sept-18 21:43:18

No words morethan sending you love and hugs. I will say a prayer, I am a "lapsed"'. Life is s**t sometimes, children are resilient, we are not so.

merlotgran Sun 30-Sept-18 21:46:54

I've read a little of what's been happening in your family, morethan and can only say how sorry I am.

Sending my heartfelt best wishes.

Grannyknot Sun 30-Sept-18 21:54:07

Oh morethan, how sad, how hard. Sending love.

PECS Sun 30-Sept-18 21:59:32

I am so sorry to hear this. Wishing you strength and {{{hugs}}} to bear whatever the future brings.

MawBroon Sun 30-Sept-18 22:01:37

Thinking of you and sending my prayers for the whole family.
Keep strong, they will need you more than ever,xx flowers

aggie Sun 30-Sept-18 22:02:32

no words , I am praying for strength for you to get through this awful time xxx

Alygran Sun 30-Sept-18 22:06:52

Sending love flowers

gillybob Sun 30-Sept-18 22:10:36

I understand how helpless you must be feeling morethan I really do. I have the same fights with “god” every night .

I will be thinking about you and your family tonight xx

Grandmashe43 Sun 30-Sept-18 22:19:39

Sending love, prayers and gentle hugs to you and your family x

Anniebach Sun 30-Sept-18 22:22:26

I will hold you in my prayers and my thougbts

With love x

Bellanonna Sun 30-Sept-18 22:24:13

Morethan I just don’t have the words, but thinking of you and sending you a big hug

Luckygirl Sun 30-Sept-18 22:25:54

You will be in my thoughts too. You are not on your own. flowers

morethan2 Sun 30-Sept-18 22:28:12

Oh thank you, thank you, I’m sitting here with the youngest who’s being sick. Bless her although she doesn’t know I suspect she feels the fear in this house tonight. Holding the bowl and wiping her gives me somthing to do. My poor baby

Greyduster Sun 30-Sept-18 22:32:07

Holding you all in my thoughts and my heart, Morethan.

BlueBelle Sun 30-Sept-18 22:41:14

I m thinking of you Morethan there’s nothing more I can say ?

Lona Sun 30-Sept-18 22:50:30

Sending you love and the strength to help your family flowers

Greenfinch Sun 30-Sept-18 22:53:06

I too am beside you in spirit.Please rest in our love.I will hold you in my thoughts and in my prayers.

cornergran Sun 30-Sept-18 22:56:22

Oh morethan, I don’t have words to help so will hold you all in my heart and send my love and a gentle hug. flowers.

Marydoll Sun 30-Sept-18 22:57:46

Morethan I can only offer my prayers that you find the strength to get through this night.
No-one can imagine what you are feeling, but everyone is here with you.

Squiffy Sun 30-Sept-18 23:06:51

Oh Morethan I can't think what to say that hasn't already been said. I'm so sorry that all of you are having to go through such an awful time. Your GCs are fortunate to have you to support them. flowers

morethan2 Sun 30-Sept-18 23:32:49

I just want to cry, but what good would that do? Only frightened the children.
I was with her all day we took the children swimming, her and me watched and chatted about Christmas and my builders, about them bringing the children over for dinner and birthday cake for grandads 65th birthday. We took the children to McDonald’s then bowling. I never hugged her goodbye, we normally do, I just waved and said see you wendsday. I got a phone call around 7 saying she’d suddenly had a seizure and didn’t recognise anyone not our eldest granddaughter, not my son. Her parents came quickly but she didn’t know them. She blue lighted to our hospital but hasn’t come round. She’s defied this illness before I’m hoping against hope that she does it again. My son phoned his brother and sobbed he wasn’t ready to loose her. I’m so glad they are so close. He’s phoned me and I can hear the despair but he’s less open with me. I don’t know how to comfort him apart from reassuring him that I’m here with the children as long as needed and sending my love to him and her family what can I do.

Doodle Sun 30-Sept-18 23:39:21

Oh morethan I don't have the words. Your family are in my thoughts and prayers. flowers

grannyqueenie Sun 30-Sept-18 23:39:24

morethan sending you my love thinking of you and praying too x