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Scared she’s not coming home

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morethan2 Sun 30-Sept-18 21:36:45

Tonight I’m scared, she might not come home. Her babies are upstairs in bed. Please don’t make my boy have to tell them she’s never coming home. Is there a god because if there is he’d stop this now.

NfkDumpling Mon 01-Oct-18 07:10:13

((((Hugs))))

Sar53 Mon 01-Oct-18 07:02:29

I too have only just seen your post Morethan and sincerely hope you receive better news today. I will be thinking of you, your son and grandchildren.

Nana3 Mon 01-Oct-18 06:55:04

I have just seen this too morethan, also hoping that you get some better news today, you must be exhausted. Thinking of you.

Marydoll Mon 01-Oct-18 06:51:17

God bless you and your family Morethan . I couldn't sleep for thinking of you all.

kittylester Mon 01-Oct-18 06:48:35

I gave only just seen this morethan. I hope today brings better news. Sending you love and gentle hugs and keeping you in my thoughts.

cornergran Mon 01-Oct-18 06:48:29

I woke thinking about you all morethan, wishing you strength for today. Sending love.

Alima Mon 01-Oct-18 06:43:26

Thinking of you all and wishing her through this.

BBbevan Mon 01-Oct-18 06:17:38

Hope this new day brings good news for you all . God Bless.

Bellasnana Mon 01-Oct-18 06:10:18

Very sorry to read your desperately sad news, morethan.
I don’t post on GN much any more, but just want you to know that you and your family are very much in my thoughts and prayers at this awful time. flowers

morethan2 Mon 01-Oct-18 05:53:20

Thank you ann your thoughts mean a lot because you carry enough sorrow of your own. No news yet, is that good? I’m tired and aching . The vomiting child has stopped being sick and the wandering dog has settled. I will have to wake the children in an hour or so. What’s the day going to bring for them. It’s too horrible to imagine here’s hoping that a miracle has happened.

annsixty Mon 01-Oct-18 04:20:58

I can't sleep so keeping up with your news morethan
You must keep praying for strength for the sake of those little ones.
My heart is full for you all.

ChaosIncorporated Mon 01-Oct-18 03:50:16

Sending thoughts and prayers morethan
You are giving your son so much at this awful time, in loving and caring for the children so that he can give all his focus to your daughter in law.
That strength, for him, must be priceless.
x

morethan2 Mon 01-Oct-18 01:56:19

Even their poor old dog is unsettled and is pacing the floor, how awful is this

morethan2 Mon 01-Oct-18 01:54:23

Sleeps not going to come tea and here’s hoping for somthing boring to watch on tv to make me drop off. Little on has finally stopped being sick and is sleeping fitfully.

PageTurner Mon 01-Oct-18 01:43:28

.Morethan, You and your family are in my thoughts.
You are giving your son peace of mind by being there for your grandchildren, as muffinthemoo has said.
Keep strong for your family?

Grandma2213 Mon 01-Oct-18 00:23:28

morethan2 sending hope and love. My heart breaks for your family. xx

annsixty Mon 01-Oct-18 00:21:11

I am beyond sad for you all.
My prayers are with the others being said for you tonight.

SueDonim Mon 01-Oct-18 00:11:34

My heart goes out to you all, Morethan2. flowers

ginny Sun 30-Sept-18 23:58:51

Thinking of you.

Marthjolly1 Sun 30-Sept-18 23:58:51

So sorry to read of your pain morethan. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts ?

muffinthemoo Sun 30-Sept-18 23:46:11

If she was able to communicate what she most needs done for her right now, it is someone to care for her babies and keep them safe and calm.

You are already doing the most important thing you can. Love and light to you all

grannyqueenie Sun 30-Sept-18 23:39:24

morethan sending you my love thinking of you and praying too x

Doodle Sun 30-Sept-18 23:39:21

Oh morethan I don't have the words. Your family are in my thoughts and prayers. flowers

morethan2 Sun 30-Sept-18 23:32:49

I just want to cry, but what good would that do? Only frightened the children.
I was with her all day we took the children swimming, her and me watched and chatted about Christmas and my builders, about them bringing the children over for dinner and birthday cake for grandads 65th birthday. We took the children to McDonald’s then bowling. I never hugged her goodbye, we normally do, I just waved and said see you wendsday. I got a phone call around 7 saying she’d suddenly had a seizure and didn’t recognise anyone not our eldest granddaughter, not my son. Her parents came quickly but she didn’t know them. She blue lighted to our hospital but hasn’t come round. She’s defied this illness before I’m hoping against hope that she does it again. My son phoned his brother and sobbed he wasn’t ready to loose her. I’m so glad they are so close. He’s phoned me and I can hear the despair but he’s less open with me. I don’t know how to comfort him apart from reassuring him that I’m here with the children as long as needed and sending my love to him and her family what can I do.

Squiffy Sun 30-Sept-18 23:06:51

Oh Morethan I can't think what to say that hasn't already been said. I'm so sorry that all of you are having to go through such an awful time. Your GCs are fortunate to have you to support them. flowers