blossom 76
Sadly there are no words that can be of much use as you have joined ' the club ' so to speak.
I have had osteoporosis, osteoarthritis , for decades and learnt that no matter how I feel the pain is not felt by others, no matter how down I feel that does not apply to others and I have taught myself to be aware that everybody has their own problems and it is best to only moan to myself.
After many years of trying various medication I was prescribed a combination of Tramadol and Meloxicam and that combination works for me. I am in a very lucky position in the sense that if I need to sit, stand, lay down I can do so as and when to keep me going. Whilst at work it was becoming impossible to function and I am of the rare breed I was grateful that by sheer coincidence I was made redundant at the right time .
It is the case that being housebound is demoralising but if you have ANY opportunity to go out, socialise I advise you take the opportunity , don't keep telling others of your pain and become a health bore , good friends and family will know. Do not feel taking medication is going to ruin your life it is there to assist you. I am prescribed 8 Tramadol and 2 Melixicam a day but I only take them now on an if and when basis , I was at one time taking them to conform to the prescription and I had what is jokingly called ' Good and bad days ' and felt I should be in control because of addiction possibilities.
I am sorry you are in this predicament it is nothing short of a bugger factor and our mental health is part of being able to cope with it all. Do you live alone? If so seek out help and take advantage if any is offered there will be an understanding of your capabilities .
