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Nobody to go on holiday with

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Notjustaprettyface Sun 14-Jun-26 07:24:26

It’s holiday season.
My husband is in a care home and bed bound .
I have quite a lot of friends but most of them still have husbands to go on holiday with.
Another widowed friend has an unmarried daughter who goes on holiday with her and another friend , now divorced for a long time , has an unmarried sister who she can go with or she goes with her adult children.
I have 2 adult children; my daughter has told me that she just wants a holiday with her husband and kids .
My son and his wife are expecting their second baby early august .
I know there are companies that do holidays for solos and I haven’t tried that yet .
I be been on a couple of short breaks in this country on my own with my dog but it’s not much fun .
So I feel a bit sorry for myself.
I have joined U3a recently and there are quite a few ladies on their own but they all seem quite a lot older than me. .
I know it’s early days yet and we will see.
Does anyone have any encouragement they could give me please?
Thanks in advance

luluaugust Sun 14-Jun-26 07:39:45

My DB holidays with Saga or Great Rail Journeys and finds people to chat with and company
Some U3A groups organise weeks away, likewise the National Trust. With all these groups someone has to be at the younger end and somebody at the older end, try not to worry too much about age

kittylester Sun 14-Jun-26 07:44:13

My friend is in a very similar position and has been on coach holidays on her own. She always has a good time.

MayBee70 Sun 14-Jun-26 07:48:51

I didn’t get on with my U3A group and it wasn’t just an age thing. I have thought of joining another one in another town as they do seem to vary. I know what you mean about holidaying on your own. When I was still married with older children when on holiday abroad I often used to happily take myself off on a day trip somewhere. But when I was actually on my own after my divorce it felt totally different being on my own and everybody else seemed to be with other people; same situation but different dynamics. It’s worth trying one of the holidays for solo people. I’ve thought of doing that myself as my partner doesn’t want to go abroad. My children don’t want me to go with them, either.

silverlining48 Sun 14-Jun-26 07:54:08

It’s good you have joined u3A. I did the same snd have met some nice people. Some groups organise holidays. Ours doesn’t.
Organised Coach tours can be an easy way of meeting others on their own and cruise lines like Fred Olsen often organise an opportunity for people who are travelling alone to meet others if they wish.
There are plenty of singles holidays advertised too.
I hope you find something which suits you.
As for age gaps the friends I have made recently are often a decade or more younger than I am. I call them my young friends and they love it.

Tuliptree Sun 14-Jun-26 07:56:12

My neighbour has done many holidays with a local coach company. Over the years she has got to know many of the regulars. The trips usually last about 5/6 days. When she tells me about them, there always seems to be a nice sense of camaraderie. If you have a local company that does these sort of holidays you could perhaps have a chat with them about who makes up usually the group - people on their own, couples etc. Anotved friend who’s on her own has done special interest holidays which is good if you have a special interest. One she did was on gardens

Macaydia Sun 14-Jun-26 07:57:00

Women-only travel is very popular right now. There are loads of organisations to choose from. Go on holiday with WomenWalkers.com You can meet your travel companions beforehand and non-shared hotel rooms are standard.

Macaydia Sun 14-Jun-26 07:59:02

(Names trouble)
*WalkingWomen.com is the correct name

Luckygirl3 Sun 14-Jun-26 08:46:38

I am in a similar situation as I am widowed.
I have in the past holidayed very happily with one of the DDs but last time I could see that my heart issues understandably caused them worry. When they asked me again last year I declined as they work so hard I want their holidays to be a real chill out time for them. For similar reasons I would not approach any friends.

Last time I went away (a friend was also holidaying there and we would meet up) I had a heart attack, so that has put me off a bit!

Just now I do not feel fit enough but if I did I would be off on some sort of trip like a shot!!