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DD will be discharged from hospital this afternoon.

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merlotgran Fri 26-Apr-19 13:34:01

It will be for the last time as there is no further treatment possible other than pain relief. She wants to be at home with all of us so we will do everything we can to make whatever time she has left comfortable and stress free. We will have support from Macmillan and district nurses and should there come a time when we are no longer able to cope, DD has agreed to go into a hospice.

Family support has been wonderful but I have to admit I'm a little scared and very, very sad.

vintage1950 Fri 26-Apr-19 13:37:20

Thinking of you and your daughter at this time. All best wishes. flowers flowers flowers

KatyK Fri 26-Apr-19 13:39:02

merlot flowers

silverlining48 Fri 26-Apr-19 13:39:48

Merlot. Thinking of you and your girl. There are no words adequate in the circumstances other than desperately Heartbreaking. Sending love and a hug x

glammanana Fri 26-Apr-19 13:41:11

merlotgran sending you my heartfelt wishes at this sad time to you and your

kittylester Fri 26-Apr-19 13:42:37

Oh, merlot. You must be full of all sorts of emotions. Dont be scared, you will do your daughter proud!

You must however be so, so sad.

Gn is here if you need us.

dragonfly46 Fri 26-Apr-19 13:43:38

Oh Merlot I feel your pain. How very sad for you all. I realise you are scared so when I am scared I take it a day at a time or even an hour at a time. Macmillan are wonderful - I hope they can give you adequate support. I am thinking of you all flowers

SueDonim Fri 26-Apr-19 13:45:51

Oh, Merlotgran I am so sorry for your situation. sad I might understand a little bit of what you're going through - my darling sibling died on Wednesday, also after an untreatable cancer. At least they had the chance to see their children grow up and enjoy their grandchildren.

How much harder it must be for you to witness your daughter enduring this. My heart goes out to you. flowers

M0nica Fri 26-Apr-19 13:53:44

flowers flowers flowers for all of you

Jane10 Fri 26-Apr-19 14:00:41

Oh Merlotgran. Unbearable. We'll all be thinking of you and sending kind vibes. Wish we could do more to support you and your family at this awful time in your lives. thanks

MawBroonsback Fri 26-Apr-19 14:01:14

My heart is too full for mere words Merlot but I am thinking of you.

Grammaretto Fri 26-Apr-19 14:05:06

Oh dear merlot how very sad for you all.
Be as strong as you can be.

Nannylovesshopping Fri 26-Apr-19 14:06:08

dear merlotgranyou now have to be the strongest you
have ever been for everyone, such love from gransnetters
to you and your beloved daughter.

cornergran Fri 26-Apr-19 14:09:06

My heart goes out to you all Merlotgran. The strength will come. flowers.

EllanVannin Fri 26-Apr-19 14:13:34

What a sad situation to be in. Along with everyone else I send my love and hope that strength will prevail throughout this time. x

annsixty Fri 26-Apr-19 14:14:50

Heartfelt thoughts to you all. flowers

mumofmadboys Fri 26-Apr-19 14:18:00

Take an hour at a time. Find time to say those things you want to say to your DD. Lots of love and prayers in this hugely difficult and sad situation xx

ninathenana Fri 26-Apr-19 14:19:19

Who wouldn't be scared and sad merlot
Wishing your family strength and peace thanks

Anniebach Fri 26-Apr-19 14:35:23

merlot x

Sara65 Fri 26-Apr-19 14:40:24

So so sad for you all, you sound like you’re being wonderfully brave. Thinking of you

GrannyGravy13 Fri 26-Apr-19 14:40:29

Merlotgran sending virtual hugs.

I hope you are able to spend lots of time just “being” with your daughter and are able to say all things that you both need to.

gillybob Fri 26-Apr-19 14:47:20

My heart is breaking for you and your darling girl merlot I can’t begin to understand how you must be feeling . You are doing a wonderful thing for her by bringing her home. Sending you lots of love and sunshine xx

paddyann Fri 26-Apr-19 14:55:26

sending you my heartfelt thoughts merlot I'll light a candle and keep it burning for you and her and all who love her .Take care

janeainsworth Fri 26-Apr-19 14:57:26

Merlot flowers I’m so sad for you. But being at home now is the right place for your DD and you xx

nanaK54 Fri 26-Apr-19 15:01:28

Sending kind thoughts flowers