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DD will be discharged from hospital this afternoon.

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merlotgran Fri 26-Apr-19 13:34:01

It will be for the last time as there is no further treatment possible other than pain relief. She wants to be at home with all of us so we will do everything we can to make whatever time she has left comfortable and stress free. We will have support from Macmillan and district nurses and should there come a time when we are no longer able to cope, DD has agreed to go into a hospice.

Family support has been wonderful but I have to admit I'm a little scared and very, very sad.

kittylester Wed 08-May-19 06:31:50

,There are no words, merlot, I can't imagine your pain. Much love!

Nico97 Tue 07-May-19 23:27:49

So very sorry Merlot to read this sad news. flowers

BradfordLass72 Tue 07-May-19 23:17:18

Sending loving thoughts to you all at this very sad time.

May you find comfort in the love you all share and being together at your DDs bedside.
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grannyqueenie Tue 07-May-19 23:08:45

Merlot thinking of you and your family in the sheer awfulness of what you’re going through. x

GrannyLiv Tue 07-May-19 23:04:11

My thoughts are with you and yours merlotgran

jogginggirl Tue 07-May-19 22:57:19

Thinking of you all Merlot and wishing a peaceful and pain free end for your darling daughter xx

CanadianGran Tue 07-May-19 22:56:56

Merlot, thinking of you and your family, may you have strength and peace for your dear daughter.

gillybob Tue 07-May-19 22:56:53

Not sure what to say to you merlot. I don’t do god at all , but I do “remember” my family and loved ones at the end of every day . I will remember you and your darling girl tonight .
xxxx

Grandmashe43 Tue 07-May-19 22:55:23

Love and peace to you all xxxx

Alygran Tue 07-May-19 22:53:20

Merlot thinking of you and your family. flowers

mumofmadboys Tue 07-May-19 22:50:28

With love and prayers xx

Doodle Tue 07-May-19 22:48:34

merlot praying for strength and comfort for you and your family. May your DD pass peacefully and pain free. Thinking of you all. ?

Marydoll Tue 07-May-19 22:45:34

Merlot, I pray that your darling daughter, you and all your family find peace.
I'm feel so sad, reading this.?

Framilode Tue 07-May-19 22:42:34

Merlot This is so sad. I'm so very sorry.

janeainsworth Tue 07-May-19 22:42:19

Merlot I’m so sorry. x

Bibbity Tue 07-May-19 22:41:35

I am so so sorry Merlot. I hope your DD is comfortable and peaceful.

Gonegirl Tue 07-May-19 22:29:27

Merlot I'm so sorry. xxx

annsixty Tue 07-May-19 22:24:35

Such a sad post.
My DH though very much older, has just been through this. What we were told would be weeks turned into very few days.
Two in fact.
My heart goes out to you all, may you all find the strength to support her and each other through the next hours.
Love and strengh to you all.

Culag Tue 07-May-19 22:19:33

I am so sorry Merlot flowers

aggie Tue 07-May-19 22:19:29

Just saying a wee prayer for you and your dear Daughter xxx

crazyH Tue 07-May-19 22:19:19

My heart is aching ......

MawBroonsback Tue 07-May-19 22:19:18

My heart breaks for you Merlot - God grant her a peaceful passing and for you all the blessing of knowing you could not have done more.
Remembering your love for your daughter and hers for you all ??

SueDonim Tue 07-May-19 22:18:12

Wishing you strength and love, Merlotgran. Xx

merlotgran Tue 07-May-19 22:15:58

Thank you, every one. Tonight we are all gathered at her bedside in the hospice. Her distressing symptoms and increasing medical needs meant we were unable to continue caring for her at home. She couldn't be in a better place. The staff are wonderful and we are also receiving care and support. There is a flat at our disposal so we will take it in turns to rest.

Our darling girl will soon be at peace.

etheltbags1 Tue 07-May-19 21:04:19

Im so sorry. I cant bear to think about it. Everyone who has children must feel the same. God bless