DD will be discharged from hospital this afternoon.

Sending you love . I’m sure you will find the strength you need. My heart goes out to you and your darling daughter x

What an awful position to be in. If I were you I would be wanting to change places with my daughter. All you can do is the best you can manage for her and know that had things been different she would have done the same for you.

I am so sorry to read this. My thoughts are with you.
My sister came home to die, she was cared for by her husband and my Mum and Dad.
Looking back, l do wonder if she would have been more comfortable in the Hospice but it’s too late now.
Now is not the time to feel self -conscious, let her know how much you love her and say everything you want to say.
The McMillan nurses were a great support to my sisters husband.
It was also important to let people have time alone with her, but of course you know your own situation best

Much love and prayers, Merlotgran

Thinking of you and your Daughter at this sad time {flowers}

So sad for you Merlot and join with all the others in sending you much love and hugs for you, your daughter and family.

So sorry merlotgran thinking of you

I cannot imagine how you feel, and I wish I could say some words that would help, but none would be good enough.

I'm sure you know that you can you can share your thoughts and feelings on here, and everyone will be here for you.

I send you love. xx

merlot there are no words to ease your situation and yet I know from experience that there is some comfort to be had from the kindness of others. You will get through this time because you must and because your daughter needs you - please know that you do so with my prayers and good wishes and, as you see here, those of your Gransnet family who, I have no doubt, will be quietly journeying alongside you at this difficult time.

Love and prayers Merlot

I’m so very sorry to hear this devastating news. As a mum who lost a daughter many years ago, I know the pain you bear. The time you have left is so very precious. Make full use of all the help available (hospice at home etc). The day will come when you can take comfort from the knowledge that you did your best for your cherished daughter and she was able to spend her last days on earth surrounded by love. You are giving her the most wonderful gift.

Can do nothing but send love to you all in this sad, terrible time. You have my sympathy but also my admiration for being such a strong and incredible mother.

Merlotgran I'm devastated to read this. Please do not be afraid If your daughter has to go into the hospice. They are amazing places where you can be her mummy and not her carer.

I'm sending you so much love and prayers from across the Irish sea.

Céad Mile Fáilte

oh merlot, I cannot imagine how hard this is must be for you. You sound like a wonderful, brave and loving mother and I am sure that your beloved DD will gain so much comfort from knowing that you are with her on this final part of her life's journey. I'm so very sorry that you both have this sorrow to endure...I'm sure that you and your family are in the thoughts and prayers of many of us here as you find your way through these hard times facing you. very much love [hug]x

So sad to hear this . Have you thought of Marie Curie nurses. ? A friend found them so good staying overnight to let her get some rest when her DH was so ill .

There are no words Merlot, just to add my thoughts are with you and your daughter and all your family. Sending you strength and love

Just a few more big, gentle hugs and a virtual shoulder,blessings and love to you and your DD. I hope you can feel the warmth and loving feelings that your thread has engendered for you.

Merlotgran, I can't imagine how you or your daughter are feeling right now. My heart goes out to you both

sending love and prayers

Thinking of you.

Merlotgran how dreadful for you all and so, so sad. I hope you have a calm place to retreat to once in a while and afterwards to recharge your batteries. Thinking of you.

Thinking of you at this sad time

Well done to you at respecting her last wishes.
Rescue remedy which is a combination of flower remedies is safe and will help with your fears

Thank you, everyone. So many kind messages. I will read them all properly this evening when hopefully things calm down a bit. It's been a pretty full on day with visits from nurses and family who couldn't come over Easter.

Everything is in place now and DD has settled in to what will be our daily regime from now on.

Thank you all once again.

Merlotgran.
Sorry to hear about your DD try to enjoy your time with her. Take care of yourself ?