DD will be discharged from hospital this afternoon.

Oh Merlot how awful, I am just so sorry, at least she is able to come home. My best wishes, will think of you tomorrow in quiet time at Friends Meeting.

So very sorry my thoughts are with you

Dear merlot

Sending love

I am sure your love for her will give you the strength you will need. Thinking of you and all your family.

Merlot I've re written this reply again as there were to many autocorrect errors in my post and I can't delete it.

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Merlot , I witnessed my son go through the same horrendous thing. He was terminally ill with cancer age 26. This was in 2010. It is the most scariest horrendous thing I've ever witnessed or every will witness. The fear and heartbreak is like no other when it is your child. Please message me if you need any friendly support. Thinking of you so much. Jo xx

So very sorry to read your very sad post. A truly dreadful time for you all, you are all in my thoughts.

Sending you the warmest thoughts Merlot. My first husband wanted to come home from hospice - against medical advice - to spend his last days. I was terrified, but I had help from the district team, co-ordinated by the MacMillan Nurse, and we were able to fulfil his wishes. That was 25 years ago. Nowadays there are multidisciplinary teams for palliative and end-of-life care in most areas. Do not be afraid to ask for any help you need. I hope that you can spend time with your daughter telling her that you love her and remembering good times together. I have lost 2 husbands, but not a child, and I can only imagine how you must feel

Thinking of you and your family

Merlot , I witnessed my son go through the same, he was terminally ill with cancer age 26. This was in 2010. It is the most scariest horrendous thing I've ever witnessed or every will witness. The dear and heartbreak is like no other when it is your child. Please message me if you need any friendly support. Thinking of you so much. Jo xx

Merlot, I feel your pain. My Niece died last November at the age of 30 she had 3 very young children 2, 4, and 6 It was her wish to be at home with her family. She was never left day or night on her own. I live 350 miles away I am pleased to say I managed to be with her a couple of times when she was in her wheelchair and went out. Also I was lucky enough to be there with the rest of the family when she died. So Sad.

It is a hard thing you have to do but be assured you will get lots of help and support from the wonderful nurses and in a way peace as you are doing the right thing for your daughter. Make the best of what little time you have left together - it is precious. Love and heart felt prayers.

God bless Merlot my heart is broke for you x

All the best, Merlot, for you and the family. xxx

Thoughts are with you and your family. Bless you all.

My love and thoughts are with you all

How heart breaking for you and your family. Your DD has been so brave and now you have to take your lead from her. There may be things she wants to do or see - or a special place she would like to visit if she is able. The coming days are so special for you all. love and wishes

Thinking of you

Sending love and hugs - I know we're all anonymous on here but I can't imagine the pain you must be in. Macmillan will be brilliant and give you lots of support

Sending warmest thoughts at this difficult time. How lovely for her that thanks to you she can come home for her remaining time. ?

You are going through one of the worst times of your life and I am thinking of you. Your love for her will give you strength.

There are no words. So sad for you ?

So sad, but try and be strong for your daughter

I understand your fear and deep sadness, all I can offer is my deepest sympathy and reassurance that you will be able to give her love and that will be a comfort for all of you. ?

Dear Merlot No wonder you are scared & sad You have a time ahead that you will look back on knowing your actions were perfect in the current circumstances & that will bring you comfort in the years ahead
Lighting a candle & intending that it’s light will guide you thro this difficult time
Very much love to you all
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