I live in France where my husband has had to go into a are home as he has Parkinson's disease, vascular dementia and cancer. The staff are caring and friendly. He is unhappy and hates it, but with his increasing falls, aggression and difficult personality I had no choice. It costs me over 3,000 euros a month and there is no state funding for us as we are British. The French have, to my mind, the best idea. All their working lives they pay 'cotisations' from their salary which goes towards their pension (TWICE what ours is !) their health care and their long term old age care. Brilliant idea ! There are schemes available for those that cannot pay but they are not easy to access (I have a friend who has a brother who needs care and the state keep putting off his assessessmenT as he has no money) The French are not happy with the amount taken off them every month but, for instance, my neighbour's mother is in care, at a home costing the same amount as my husband's and she pays 1,200 euros a month, and her family has to contribute around 200 extra. So although the French (Gilet Jaun) are mounting continuing pressure about their wages etc they don't know how much better off they are and will be, than us and those in the UK. Difficult but needs must ...maybe if we stop paying the MPs or whoever (Lords ?) who want to take away the few perks UK pensioners do have, their 350 pounds a day, more could be provided for those that need it ! grrrr