About 25 years ago I had my gall bladder removed. The surgeon said afterwards I would probably have 'digestive' problems in the future but was very vague about what they might be. Fast forward 10 years and I began having suďden and unexpected attacks of diarrhoea, very infrequent at first but then increasing and accompanied by mucous, wind, acid reflux, heartburn and bloating. My doctor reluctantly said it might be IBS, even though he admitted that he didn't really believe IBS even existed. It was his opinion that 'we women' were not careful enough about what we ate and drank! The only help he offered me was to buy Loperomide for the diarrhoea. And so I just had to learn to live and cope with this debilitating and hugely embarrassing condition. I retired early because continuing in my job was becoming impossible. At about the same time I was also diagnosed with allergic rhinitis and asthma, and I am now convinced that there is some sort of link between all three conditions, odd though it may seem. As far as the IBS is concerned I sometimes feel like a prisoner in my own home. The shortest journey has to be carefully timed and planned, keeping appointments is a nightmare, and we haven't visited our children in their homes for over three years - I can't face the 100 mile journey and staying in hotels - they always come to us. But for the last 3 months I have changed to gluten free foods and lactose free milk and I have noticed a slight improvement, the acid reflux and heartburn has practically been illiminated and bouts of diarrhoea are a bit less frequent. My Asthma on the other hand has got a lot worse and I am taking courses of antbiotics and sterroids every few weeks to stabilise it. The antibiotics cause diarrhoea so I also take a daily probiotic supplement. I feel like I'm going round in circles, I'm either stuck indoors because of the diarrhoea or because I can't breathe well enough to walk anywhere!! It's very depressing. But I'm pleased to sèe that more people are now prepared to speak openly about IBS and to help and support other sufferers, it can be a lonely and isolating condition to live with.
Fennel I hope your doctor is knowlegable and sympathetic if your diagnosis is IBS and that you are able to find solutions that work for you. Wishing you well 