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I Live in a First Class Assisted Living ALZ/Memory Care Facility

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lonjay Fri 30-Aug-19 20:24:12

Just as I voluntarily gave up driving I voluntarily signed myself into my present facility. I am a well traveled 85 year old single male living alone in a nice one bedroom apartment. Daughter and three adult grand kids live 15 minutes away.

B9exchange Fri 30-Aug-19 20:42:48

Sounds perfect, good for you, long may you live to enjoy it!

M0nica Fri 30-Aug-19 20:43:25

How fortunate you are to be able to get everything together so well and be near your family. Do you also have Alzheimers?

Anyone and everyone is welcome to Gransnet, lonjay and we look forward to hearing more from you.

BradfordLass72 Sat 31-Aug-19 13:10:37

lonjay A man after my own heart!

I too gave up driving before I was officially supposed to and should I get to the stage where I need extra care, I would never want my kin to be exhausted by looking after me, however willing they might be. So I'll be signing myself in, just as you have.

Good on ya!

bingo12 Sat 31-Aug-19 13:37:31

Great - but what did you do with all your ''stuff''?

ElaineI Sat 31-Aug-19 14:04:32

Sounds ideal Good for you.

Gonegirl Sat 31-Aug-19 14:24:18

Think I'll do the same. Sunrise Homes sound great. I will leave my stuff here with DH.

merlotgran Sat 31-Aug-19 14:27:26

grin Gonegirl, I've threatened to do that many a time.

crazyH Sat 31-Aug-19 14:29:38

Good on you lonjay.....and the food's not bad either (as per the recent plate you uploaded).
Gonegirl ?

BradfordLass72 Sun 01-Sept-19 06:54:23

bingo12
My 'stuff' is mostly 2nd hand, apart from my bed and a couch which were both new.

I long ago had to get rid of heirloom furniture; things my parents bought for their Silver Wedding, items left by my great-aunt and great-grandparents; pretty much everything of any commercial and sentimental value.

I gave away the majority of my precious, precious books; kept just a few my sons bought me over the years but I can't read them of course.

I own no jewelry (I even had to sell my wedding ring) and even my PC is over a decade old (my son built it).

I choose to have a very minimalist lifestyle and if I don't use something for 6 months, I give it away.

And that, should I have enough warning, is what I shall do if I need to go into extra care. I'll ring the Hospice Shop and let them take everything my son doesn't want.