Auntieflo, I remember the advice I was given after having my fourth child - in a hurry. The second stage of labour was six minutes (two huge pushes) resulting in much bruising and blood blisters. (Sorry for the icky details.) The doctor said to make a large pad of tissue and hold it firmly on the vulval area when emptying the bowels. It really helped!
German voters slide inexorably to common sense …
Retiring and living frugally in money from downsizing after years of stress



