I’m going to have a nose job that I don’t really want.

Hope it goes well Pamela ?
My DD had similar ( saw two consultants with two differing diagnoses.)
The problem is, that experts often have different opinions, and this happens in every field, not just medical!

That is an incredibly crass and insensitive comment GabbyG to someone who is talking about a skin cancer diagnosis.

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It's pleasing to know that you're glad that I'm glad. That makes us both happy. ?

GabriellaG54,
Have you read my posts?
I am so glad that you seem so concerned with my diagnosis.
If you object so much that I had doubts about the initial diagnosis why are you still here? It must irritate you to death.
Would you have preferred it if I had ignored my fears? Maybe you would have been happy if I’d waited till my nose was eaten away?
The diagnosis that I had last night is, I believe, the correct one.
Shall I send you photos of the skin graft the consultant was talking about, after he starts the procedure? If he has to that is, I hope he won’t
After he has ascertained the extent of the problem he will decide which course to take.
I’m so happy for you that you have total faith in the medics that come your way. They are only human and if you expect a GP to diagnose a skin cancer then you will be disappointed.

My GP tried to tell me that the recurrence of my skin cancer was inflammation. I know sometimes doctors come under pressure because they have referred x no of patients. One, not particularly good GP, was always being hauled over the coals but his catchment was largely a 1950s sink estate where whole families had complex medical problems and obviously by the 90s, were also getting age related health problems. His main protagonist's catchment area included two high end housing estates where a lot of the patients had BUPA cover. So totally unfair comparisons.

Amagran
I hope the OP is proved correct in her diagnosis and can let her GP know he was wrong to dismiss her concerns.
I believe that doctors usually know their patient's medical history, so it's a worry that he and the Spire specialist both came to the same conclusions.

Thank you, PamelaJ1. All well now. The medication, as the second doctor advised, worked within 3 days.

I made an ititial appointment with the GP. She did the first step. Took a photo of my nose and sent it down line to a team who pronounce on it.
I am influenced by the media and mindful of the calls on GP’s time so made an appointment at Spire independently.
I then spent another worrying 5 months and then went back to the surgery. My own GP looked at it and then suggested that I saw a different consultant at Spire.
I paid for the consultation again because he said that it would take 6-9 months before I would be seen at the hospital. My patch had already grown bigger so I was anxious to get it done sooner rather than later.
I think that these days more and more of us are paying to be treated privately if we are able to afford it.

I usually respect your outspoken posts GabriellaG54, but I think you're out of line on this one. The OP was 'listening' to her own body and instincts. GPs, like the rest of us mortals make mistakes (see my earlier post) and the best medics respect that people know their own bodies better than anyone and will investigate any changes which people are worried about.

It is worrying that people with blind faith in the medical profession are being turned away with symptons that need immediate investigation.

Ignore GG she obviously has "issues".

www.theguardian.com/society/2018/feb/28/gps-offered-cash-to-refer-fewer-people-to-hospital not sure how reliable this paper is but a lot of people seem to set a lot of store by it.

I've spent this year dealing with similar evasions with a GP I had previously trusted. Very draining and scary but potentially, like you, my life could have been at risk if I hadn't followed through.

Good luck with the biopsy and treatment.

Was the second consultant also from Spire? Only asking because they would be my go-to hospital if I ever need private care.

Thinking again now.

Because Gabriella I have already had a BCC so recognised the symptoms.
Because I doubted that I knew better than an expert I googled it and nowhere did it say that bleeding and scabbing were symptoms of Solar Elastosis, however they are the main symptoms of BCC.
Because although I am not a skin Cancer Specialist I have spent my working life dealing with skin and recommending my clients to get things checked out.

I didn’t get the answer I wanted.
Why would I want to have a great big hole cut out of my nose FGS?
I wanted a Consultant without an attitude who would give my nose more than a passing glance. That’s what I got last night.
I know my skin and I know that as a child I often had sunburn.
I have fair skin and grew up in a hot country. Ideal candidate for BCC.
Why are you so cross that I followed my instincts and will have surgery soon before the cancer eats more of my nose.

So...you kept going until you got the answer you wanted.
Why would you ask medical specialists including the 'top woman' at Spire, then disagree with her and your GPs diagnosis, unless of course, you are medically qualified and specialised in skin cancers?

Thanks, glad I’m a stroppy cow.
We all really want to be told that all is well but sometimes we know it isn’t.
Hopefully all is well no amagran.

I've got patchy skin - I put it down to sun damage. Hate going to doctor's ....oh well ...
All the best PamelaJ !

Too true, PamelaJ1. I almost lost my sight thanks to one rude and offensive GP who told me (amongst other offensive things) that all I had was a "Nurofen headache". Turns out it was Giant Cell Arteritis, which untreated, can lead to blindness. I found the incident very distressing.

Well done for persisting,*PJ1*, and good luck with the biopsy and surgery.

I’m glad for you Pamalaj1. That you had the confidence to go back.
Good luck.
I on the other hand hate dr’s so much, if I had the all clear (with the added embarrassment of being told I was wasting their time!), I would have left with my tail between my legs!!