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Mumsyface Sun 03-Nov-19 08:24:54

I live in a town in Spain which was recently cut of by floods for a week and one of the side effects was that we had no running water for a week. The Red Cross set up standpipes, and for us the inconvenience was minimal. However, carrying bottles of water every day set me thinking about global water supplies and wastage. My question is how much/often do we need to shower/bathe for hygiene and a socially acceptable level of cleanliness?
As kids we used to have one bath a week, on Sundays, and that was shared with my brother until he was old enough to refuse. I think my mum must have encouraged/told us to wash in between but I don’t think we did....at least, not very much. I have vague memories of washing in the sink and that is what I started doing when we had no running water - half a kettle of hot water in half a sink of cold water with a dash of liquid soap. It seemed to work okay so I’ve continued in this way hoping to save water globally and, of course, on our water bill. I do still shower at the swimming pool after swimming once .or twice a week.
Is this enough? Have I been socially programmed into thinking I should shower every day? What do you all think?

SueDonim Mon 04-Nov-19 23:31:16

Well, I enjoy my evening bath, it relaxes me before bedtime. I'm not going to deny myself one of life's small pleasures, especially when it's been stotting down for days so everywhere around me is flooded! grin

LondonGranny Mon 04-Nov-19 23:21:44

One thing I miss is drying on the line. It smelled lovely. These days a day on the line in central London smells of traffic fumes. When I go and stay with my bestie who lives in the countrysideI have a real sense of joy pinning things on the line.

LondonGranny Mon 04-Nov-19 23:18:37

It's a lot easer now I have a washing machine rather than a weekly trip to the the bagwash.

MissAdventure Mon 04-Nov-19 23:15:50

I do like a nice clean tea towel and dishcloth, but it's ruddy hard work keeping up with it all, here.

LondonGranny Mon 04-Nov-19 23:10:21

...as do my teatowels. I read something somewhere that said teatowels only needed to be washed once a week which struck me as unhygenic.

LondonGranny Mon 04-Nov-19 23:09:09

I don't wash the flannels daily, to be clear, they go into the laundry basket after a day.

LondonGranny Mon 04-Nov-19 23:07:22

I hate showers with a deep loathing. Too many memories of cold showers and sadistic PE teachers. I wash at the basin twice a day, morning and evening, flannel for armpits and nethers, sponge for face and the rest.
Flannel washed on a hot wash with towels after each day (I have more than one flannel) sponge (a big proper natural one from Greece) soaked in bicarb & water weekly then rinsed and I have a luxurious deep hot bath with nice bath salts or bubble bath while DH listens to the Archers on Sunday. Bliss.
I wash my hair once a week unless I've been doing something that makes it particularly grubby. I found doing it more often than once a week makes it dry and awkward.

Callistemon Mon 04-Nov-19 22:53:05

My mum was a great fan of Dettol too
If I got a cut or graze (a frequent occurrence) it would also come out, poured into boiling water, cooled, then the cut washed with cotton wool soaked in the Dettol water.

4allweknow Mon 04-Nov-19 22:43:44

The media is always telling us we wash our body too much, use too much shampoo and lotions, wash our clothes too often and use too many chemicals to clean our houses. Unless you are hot and sweaty, have a mucky job there is no need for all the showering we do nowadays. We were advised to shower instead of baths to save water and energy. How many adults can say they had a bath everyday everyday before or after work we have lost the plot! A bath a shower every few days and a quick wash down daily should do.

Gonegirl Mon 04-Nov-19 22:17:03

Drene shampoo in pillow shaped sachets.....

Can still remember that smell.

Daisymae Mon 04-Nov-19 22:05:07

When everyone was a bit smelly I guess that it was accepted that a weekly bath was ok. I remember long greasy hair midweek too. Personally it would take a lot for me to give up a daily shower.

Hetty58 Mon 04-Nov-19 21:56:28

Perhaps it would be better for our skin (especially in winter) to shower less often. When we were camping we'd have a 'bottle wash' (large bottle of warm water and some soap) on the campsite loo!:

www.health.harvard.edu/blog/showering-daily-is-it-necessary-2019062617193

Hetty58 Mon 04-Nov-19 21:42:38

Apricity, that explains a lot. A 1930's house we bought in NZ was flooded when somebody forgot their running bath. The bath had no overflow at all - probably meant for outhouse use!

SueDonim Mon 04-Nov-19 21:37:04

Envious, I think that man might have been the same one that was walking in front of me up the stairs in a shopping mall today. The pong made my eyes water! I hope your op goes well tomorrow. flowers

Apricity Mon 04-Nov-19 21:22:33

My mother grew up in a poor inner city suburb in southern Oz in the 1920s and 30s. The rented house had no bathroom, just a tin bath in the laundry outhouse with hot water heated in the copper and then bucketed into the bath. Baths were only on Saturday night and in between they had an 'APC'. Arm pits and crutch.

Daisyboots Mon 04-Nov-19 20:58:21

Like most posters I grew up with the Sunday bath and hairwash followed by daily strip washes at the sink. I used to love having a bath but it couldn't be a ten minute bath for me. An hour long soak with a good book topping up with hot water when necessary was heaven for me as a busy Mum. But I have preferred showers for years and usually a daily shower.
But while having chemo I was so exhausted that I cut the showers down to every other day or every two days the other days just washing the necessities. On a few occasions I couldn't stand long enough to wash so used baby wipes. I was forever asking my DH if I smelt that in the end he said enough and he would tell me if I smelt. He hasn't so presumably I don't smell. Not showering every day also helped my skin because the chemotherapy really dries the skin and I wasnt always up to smothering myself in body lotion.
I think smelly people just dont wash very often or use deodorants. I remember a salesman who worked for the same company as me and reeked of BO all the time telling the boss when spoken to about it that his wife was a nurse and didn't believe in deodorants because she thought they were unhealthy. confused

watermeadow Mon 04-Nov-19 20:40:59

I’m new to showering and hate it. So cramped and so difficult to wash the bits which most need it. Then having to wipe down all the walls afterwards because our water is very hard.
I’m surprised at all the strip washes mentioned. My bathroom is, and always has been, too cold to stand in naked. A tin bath in front of a fire sounds much nicer.

Daisyboots Mon 04-Nov-19 20:28:44

Aggie my water is free because it comes from a borehole which goes down into the earth over 120 metres to collect it. But we don't abuse it as all water is precious.

Marydoll Mon 04-Nov-19 20:16:17

For anyone who is interested in the suggestion that there is a link between using talc and ovarian cancer.

www.nhs.uk/news/cancer/talc-and-ovarian-cancer-what-the-most-recent-evidence-shows/

BlueSky Mon 04-Nov-19 20:12:56

And as for talcum powder being dangerous well we are all doomed! Our mothers used to finish off our baths with a generous dusting of the white stuff!

BlueSky Mon 04-Nov-19 20:09:23

I don't mind them selling such products if they sell them on the 'similar to your natural ph' principle but when they suggest we need them not to smell! angry

teifi Mon 04-Nov-19 19:34:21

You can still get Femfresh powder, though Boots and other chemists don't seem to sell it any more. I buy it on e-bay. The main ingredient is not talc, but maize (corn) flour. I don't use it on intimate 'bits', but find it's excellent for keeping at bay those red marks under the boobs....

Riggie Mon 04-Nov-19 18:33:18

Good grief Envious.

When DS had surgery he was supposed to have a bath and hairwash in betadine in the hospital (he was admitted the evening before). Betadine is basically iodine to which he is allergic. That caused a bit if a flap!!!

Marydoll Mon 04-Nov-19 17:39:31

When I had my recent angiogram, I was advised not to use any deoderant, nail polish, creams or perfume and there was no surgery involved.

Eloethan Mon 04-Nov-19 16:52:16

Some of those feminine hygiene products are said to be damaging to health - and I think talc was also found to increase the risk of cancer.