Lindylou apologies didnt read whole thread. Sorry to hear re your husbands results and a bloomin disgrace with the rigmarole. However, what I wanted to say is, one of my previous managers had Myeloma, it can be treated as I know they attended hospital for appointments. What it consisted of I don't know. Unfortunately Lymphoma I know nothing about. I very much feel for you but please remember your husband needs you now. You will get a ton of support from the good folks on this forum. You are not alone.
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