Two week ago I had to take my old car to the Dealers as it had had a recall (something to do with the airbag)
So booked it in (no cost to me) left it there for few hours whilst I pottered round the shop.
They rang to say car was ready and could they have little chat
The little chat was>>>>> as the car was in at the dealers they do a "Free Health Check"
They found
My oil was a bit too high and could cause damage (my oil was changed two years ago by qualified mech)
My front tyre was wearing down and will need replacing .
soon.
My back number plate bulbs were not working ( they could do it now for £14.99)!!
My headlights had deteriated and needed re doing(the plastic deteriates and makes the lense cloud over) cost £145.00!!
Also they could offer me a service and free M.O.T £135!!
"Would you like us to sort these things out for you now whilst you wait"???
No thank you I replied. as I did the headlights myself last year at a cost of £3-00 and a bit of free time.
The number plate bulbs I can buy for £1.99 each and replace them myself
My tyre has 3.7 ml on yet and the car has not long had M.O.T
The oil (if! it was too high, I can go find my basting pippette and draw off some of the oil)
Was it because they saw a 64 yr old woman coming in to collect her 15 yr old car?? I don't know!! did I have MUG written on my forehead! Noooo not that day lol. I surprised myself actualy.
But going back to confidence, yes we do loose it unless we use it.
I think various things can cause lack of confidence.
For me it was/is grief.
This year I will try and boost up my confidence throughout the year.
I've got another 'keen'... Ouch!