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Doodle Wed 15-Jan-20 16:56:36

annie hope it’s not presumptuous of me to start the thread but I appear to have closed the last one and didn’t want to leave anyone with no where to go.
Welcome all x

rafichagran Sun 01-Mar-20 12:29:53

NonnieI hope the day gets better for you. You are amongst people who can relate to how you feel.

Flutterby1 Sun 01-Mar-20 17:53:48

Doodle thinking of you. It really is awful when we have these unwanted times but you know that all at Black Dog Gang are wishing you well xx

Nonnie Mon 02-Mar-20 10:17:59

Yes annie on meds

Doodle Mon 02-Mar-20 14:05:37

Hello my friends I am back from my holiday. Unfortunately I got norovirus so that spoilt a few days and has left me feeling a bit woolly and weak. Still, on the mend now so hopefully will improve soon. DH might be going down with a cold so neither of us in full working order ? (I won’t mention where we have been as having mentioned the Norovirus it might identify me to someone)
Such sadness on GN at the moment with bereavements and some very poorly families. My heart goes out to them all.
flutterby thank you for your kind words but as I haven’t posted for a while I wonder if you meant your post for nonnie . Kind words anyway.
It will take me a while to catch up with all that has gone on.
nonnie sorry to hear you had a bad day Sunday. Hope you are feeling better today.
annie hello my dear. It sounds as though a lot is going on for you. You need a social secretary to organise all these events for you. Take it one day at a time. Tell David I was thinking of him on St David’s Day. I had some Welshcakes. Not had any for a long time. They were quite nice but nothing like the ones my mum used to bake on her griddle. Took me back just seeing them.?
joce hope you had a good trip with the grandchildren. Look forward to hearing all about it.
nanny you made me smile with your post about Marshall and fat cat bringing strays home for you to help ?.
rafichagran and lavender sorry you have health anxieties.
I would say try not to worry but I know how hard that is. Take care
Hello Salsa, curly, namsnanny, sharon, grandmafrench hope you are all ok. dawn, I’m not sure what anticipatory anxiety is (I will look it up) but I hope the feelings have lifted a bit and you are not so anxious now.
Hope I haven’t left anyone out. Take care.
Lovely to be back with you all. x

Anniebach Mon 02-Mar-20 17:55:27

rafichafran hope they recommend a tens machine, it helped
me. x

nonnie it will pass , but that help when it descends does it x

Doodle you have been missed, norovirus on holiday, what
rotten luck, hope you have made a good recovery. Yes welshcakes need the griddle . David was on the sofa yesterday,
he is back on top of the wardrobe now ?

Anniebach Mon 02-Mar-20 17:58:20

I listened to Dorothy Lowe on uTube this afternoon, she speaks of - unhappiness is not depression, I agree.

I had severe depression after my second daughter was born,
I now realise I am not depressed but unhappy, a difference

Grandmafrench Mon 02-Mar-20 18:21:53

Good evening to all. How are you today, Anniebach? Hope you're winning the war and maintaining control of any unplanned raids on your peace and comfort. Still not the weather for new windows, I should imagine, but it's such hard work getting people to firstly understand what you want (and what you decide in your own home) and then getting them to stick to what's agreed. A state of constant alert is needed - totally exhausting and messes with our days far too often. Hope you are feeling much better now, Doodle Norovirus is truly awful. Had it at a New Year some years ago. My adult Son vomited so much that he took himself off to hospital. It was one of the first times that the illness swept through the UK. You possibly now need another holiday to get over it all - so maybe take it very easy and be kind to yourselves until you feel strong again. Hope everyone in The Gang feels more energised and positive this week. March has arrived so the bad weather must should be on its way out by now....hmm ? Whatever you're doing, take care all.

SalsaQueen Mon 02-Mar-20 19:46:21

Doodle Oh. that's nasty. I hope you soon feel alright.

Rafichagran How is your anxiety? We're familiar with that on here. Hope it passes soon.

Nonnie How are you feeling today? Those low moods are horrible.

Anniebach How are you today?

Hello to Flutterby Lavenderzen Namsnanny
Joce and anyone else I've not mentioned.

lavenderzen Mon 02-Mar-20 20:08:36

Hello everyone.

Doodle So sorry to here you have had such a nasty virus, I hope you soon feel better, it takes it out of you, take care.

How are you Annie hope you have had some respite from everything that is going on.

Rafichagran saw your post the other night and meant to come on later and then I forgot, sorry, I do hope you are managing your sciatica and are able to sleep at night.

Nonnie hope you and lovely Marshal and friends are alright and your mood has lifted. Sometimes things just overwhelm us don't they.

I just feel a bit down today, my hands hurt and despite the meds and gel they don't seem to get any better, I don't suppose they will really. I had a call earlier last week that the staff were bringing my daughter to visit, which I was looking forward to, but now with this virus that is going around I don't think it will happen. Anyway I keep reading the poem by Eric Hanson and I have sent her a copy.

Love to all including Flutterby SalsaQueen Namsnanny Joyce and to everyone I have forgotten xxx

Joce345 Tue 03-Mar-20 10:43:18

Well back to reality, hope all is well , back soon after a bit of sleep soooo tired ?...

Anniebach Tue 03-Mar-20 13:55:20

Hi all x

Joce welcome back, x

How is everyone ?

SalsaQueen Tue 03-Mar-20 16:19:25

Hello Joce. Did you have a lovely time?
I've been to my 2 part-time jobs, done some shopping, changed the beds, done the washing, hoovered all through the place, and now I'm going to see what's for dinner later....

Anniebach How are you?

Anniebach Tue 03-Mar-20 17:23:22

SalsaQueen I have done 3 crosswords and 2 Killer Sudokus ,

I am so happy for you, your two jobs working out so well x

nanny2507 Tue 03-Mar-20 18:22:23

Hello all. I am in much pain tonight with my arthritis. I am still feeding the stray/feral I have called it binks from hocus pocus I have no idea if it is a boy or girl last night I was so close I could have touched 'him' but I didn't as I didnt want to scare it. Hubs has promised to feed 'him' when I go and visit my gd

lavenderzen Tue 03-Mar-20 18:50:21

Nanny (I keep getting names mixed up, sorry), so sorry you have pain, this horrible weather doesn't help, hope you soon feel better. I love your stories about Marshall and his friends, Blinks is the perfect name for the new arrival x

Doodle Tue 03-Mar-20 20:08:42

nanny so sorry you are in such pain. Hope you have a better night tonight.
Glad you’re back safely joce. Looking forward to hearing about your trip.
lavender sorry about your painful hands. I do hope your daughter can still visit.
annie my DH loves the killer sudokus too.
Hope everyone sleeps well. Take care all ?

Anniebach Tue 03-Mar-20 20:52:22

My friends,

I said last week I felt swamped after the GP visit, had a telephone call from Social Services this afternoon. Seems the
GP was concerned that I live in isolation, with the exception of
my younger granddaughters visit every three weeks. I have not received any support with going out. The person I spoke to will speak to the head of Social Workers dept tomorrow and
will see what help they can offer me.

So please, prayers / crossed fingers/ dancing naked on the lawn , anything, for me to have some support x

Doodle Tue 03-Mar-20 21:24:41

annie I was on my way to bed when I thought I’d do my nightly check on the Gang so I’ve just seen your message.
Definitely got all fingers crossed (toes too). Prayers as always.
Dancing naked on the lawn in my case would frighten too many people ??. Let’s hope at last you get the support and help you deserve. It’s been so long.x

nanny2507 Tue 03-Mar-20 22:08:58

annie that did make me laugh. I wont be doing anything naked...too many delicate people around ha ha xx

SalsaQueen Tue 03-Mar-20 22:10:54

Anniebach I do hope you get the help you need. I'll keep everything crossed for you x

Nanny Sorry you're having so much pain. Are you on the most effective painkillers? I hope you adopt little Binks smile

all on here I hope you all have a restful night.

Grandmafrench Tue 03-Mar-20 22:30:56

Goodnight Annie sorry that I don't have any time to speak to you because it takes a lot of energy to dance naked anywhere, especially on the lawn when I have a bad slightly better foot, so excuse me whilst I go search for my dancing shoes. Keep everything crossed, good things are going to happen, you will get some help and maybe you'll see the next sunny day from the other side of your door!

lavenderzen Tue 03-Mar-20 23:08:47

Prayers for you Annie

nanny2507 Wed 04-Mar-20 08:01:29

my lovely nonnie how are you feeling today? a little brighter i hope xxx

annie i love your poems too and your wise words xx

Nonnie Wed 04-Mar-20 10:29:05

I pray for you all annie so no dancing.

Thanks folks for good wishes. What I'm feeling is indescribable, can't explain, too painful.

Flutterby1 Wed 04-Mar-20 14:51:08

Annie prayers said, fingers x, toes x, dancing on the lawn - mmm not done but sang a wee song instead. I am excited to hear that at long, long last you will get the help you so need and deserve. hugs to you.
Joce can’t wait to hear about your holiday. So proud of you.
To all my lovely GN friends hope your day is going well.
And guess what - the sun is actually shining here in Bonnie Scotland.
Hugs to all.
Oh Annie meant to say I looked at Dorothy Lowe you tube. Very interesting. I am bit unhappy too. X

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