OH now on end-of-life care.

I'm so sorry, Luckygirl, I know this is heartbreaking for you as I've been there myself. Part of you wants DH to stay alive but you don't want him to suffer so you wish it was over too. It's a terrible state of limbo.
Please be assured that most deaths are peaceful and when he's gone you will feel sad that he's no longer around but relieved that he's no longer suffering. This is the only positive way to look at it. My sympathies to you.

Luckygirl, Daughter & I are thinking of you. xx

Luckygirl, I am so sorry. Thinking of you.

I’m glad you have your daughters with you at this difficult time

Thinking of you lucky

I’m glad you have someone to share the strain, Luckygirl. It was a bit like that with my dad, although it was only one day. My mum and brother and I sat round his hospital bed chatting and even laughing at times at fond memories. He rarely roused (pneumonia following cancer) but it was somehow homely to be there talking as though everything was normal.

Thinking of you Lucky today and every day

Thinking of you all.Lucky ???

Take care Lucky, thinking of you

Thank you - all your words are helping to prop me up and I am grateful for this.

Good morning lucky, what Kitty has said.
Hoping and for praying for peace for your husband, you and your family.

Morning lucky. I think you are right to try to keep some normality in your life. Mum stayed with us for quite a while after she was put on end of life care.

Sending love and support.

Take care

Words are so inadequate at times like these. You have been a pillar of strength and no one could have done more.

Take comfort from all the messages from people who have followed your journey and admire your resolve to give your DH the best possible care over the years.

Sending love and prayers xx

Sleep well Lucky. Night, night.

Marmight ?

Have a peaceful night.

Love and strength to you all luckygirl, such a difficult time. Xx

Dear luckygirl, always in my prayers x

Luckygirl,
I put that, then don't know what to say. Thank you for finding the time to update us all here.

It is almost an insult to your hard work in trying to find funding for your DH's care, that now it is to be offered at the n'th hour.
You certainly put up a heroic fight, and it has taken a toll, so sleep tight. Night, night, God bless.

Thinking of you, Luckygirl

Thinking of you luckygirl as you watch and wait. I’m so glad you have your girls to share it all with. x

he may well be able to hear you even if he appears to be asleep.My sisiter and I sat with mum and chatted about silly things that we'd done in the past ,every now and then mum would open her eyes and add something to the conversation .I think she was glad we were remembering happier times .All she wanted was for us all to remain close when she had gone .
I'll keep a candle lit for you and your family and send my heartfelt best wishes to you all x

If he knew, he would be pleased about that.

My DDs share it with me. And sometimes one will be there when I am and we were just saying today that one positive spin-off in this sad situation is that we get quiet time together when we are not rushing about and dealing with GC, but we can sit and talk while OH sleeps. Precious shared time.