OH now on end-of-life care.

Luckygirl I'm so sorry for the situation you find yourself in and hope that you can find some peace and comfort in the hours and days ahead. May God be with you both xx

My heart goes out to you, it is distressing for you, God grant you the strength to carry on.

Luckygirl, so sad for you all, you've done everything you can, and I hope the end is peaceful and swift for all your sakes.

I'm so sorry, sending kindest thoughts

So sorry Luckygirl

Lucky (from experience) it may be that you have to tell him that it's OK to give up the struggle. Say that your daughters will look after you and he doesn't have to worry now. Sometimes, people really need 'permission' to go.

Thinking of you Lucky.

Really sorry to hear this, especially since you've had such a struggle. Will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

Lucky if he's in distress they need to commence those end of life medications now, particularly the anxiolytic drug, Midazolam.

There is no easy solution to your torment except to think that you love him enough to let him go. ?
I do know much of what you must be feeling, but in hindsight, much as I would give my right arm to have Paw back again, it would be totally wrong to wish more hours and days of pain and suffering on him.
Take this opportunity for anybody who needs to see him, to visit. Be there with your daughters and if there is one positive to take from this, it is the chance to tell him you love him and to say goodbye. If he slips away in the arms of those who love him best, that is a privilege many of us would wish for.
A hard hard time for you ?

Thinking about you both.

Lucky This must be torture for both of you. I'm so sorry. I know how torn you must be feeling. I hope his team will be able to alleviate his distress, which will make you feel better too.

I think everyone on here, and no doubt in real life too will be thinking of you both, Luckygirl.
Strength and courage being wished for you.

Bless you both. I hope if and when your DH leaves you, it will be very peaceful for him .??

So sorry to read this, Lucky. Witnessing someone you love unable to explain their distress is very hard.

There comes a point when you know there is nothing more you can do other than face the inevitable with as much courage as you can muster.

Sending love and best wishes.

Lucky I am so sorry but know just how you feel. It is heartbreaking to see someone you love suffer ?

Thinking of you.

Sorry to hear the latest development with your much loved husband Luckygirl. It's heartbreaking to be in this situation, my experience has been of good medical teams and I do hope that is what you have to support you at this time. Sending love to all of you x

Luckgirl so dreadfully sorry for and your husband. What an absolutely heartbreaking situation for you to be in. I have no answer really. Maybe be guided by the doctor if you feel it is intolerable for your husband. Sending love and the warmest of wishes to you.

Oh Luckygirl I am so desperately sorry for you, to be dealing with this after such a long and drawn out struggle to get the best care for your OH. But you can at least take comfort from the fact that you did succeed in that struggle. You found him a place in a home where he has been content, somewhere he was happy to move to.

My thoughts are with you both as you face this next trial.

So Sorry

I am so sorry Luckygirl a dreadful time for you

Been there so know how you feel. I hope your dear husband is spared more pain. Do feel free to discuss with the doctor your husband’s expressed wishes, and yours. It can influence decisions on medication. May you both find peace.
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