OH now on end-of-life care.

Such a hard time for you, lucky. If you are doing what he wants, it's all you can do. I hope that his distress can be minimised. All good wishes xx

So sorry for you and your DH. He and you have been through so much and sadly this looks like the end for him. EOL drugs mean he will pass peacefully and with no pain. It is possibly the kindest thing that you can do for him now. I am sure everyone who has followed your posts will be thinking of you both at this difficult time. Big virtual hugs and I hope it doesnt last too long, you have both suffered enough.

Lucky girl so sorry for you that you are having to face this but I hope you and your husband can find some peace together

I'm sorry to hear this lucky. You have always done your very best for your dh and you are doing the right thing now. It must be hard for you. I know you and your daughters will be supporting each other now. Take care.

Luckygirl. My thoughts are with you and all your family

So sorry to hear Luckygirl we recently went through this with my mum in law. Thinking of you

Oh Lucky What a truly awful and sad time for you both. My thoughts are with you as I hope, as time goes on, you find the right decision to find you both at peace with loving thoughts and understanding what the next step should be.

Sending love and Hugs for you?

I have been there too. My thoughts are with you ?

I am so sorry Luckygirl. You have both really been through it. I just hope they keep him comfortable and peaceful now for both your sakes.

Very sad news, I send you also sincere good wishes.

I'm so sorry ,we went through this with my mother and its hard .I hope you can get some rest when he sleeps as it was the only thing that kept me going .My mum didn't linger for long and difficult as it was it was a releif for us and a release for her when the end came .Take care of yourself

Sorry to hear this. You must be so torn. ???

My dear, dear friend was in a similar situation....her husband of 59 years, has just passed away from Metastatic kidney cancer. She loved him dearly, but dreaded visiting him in the hospital. He had no quality of life...couldn't even speak to her. Like you, she justed wanted it all to be over, for his sake, moe than hers.
Sending you

So sorry. How awful for you.

Oh luckygirl, so heartbreaking for you and your family, you have really done your very best for your dear husband, try and take care of you.

Oh Luckygirl,it really is a torment for you.Sending you love,thoughts and prayers.x?

So sorry Luckygirl, I have nothing to say that could possibly help, other than you are both in my thoughts.
Sending you sincere good wishes and hoping you and your DH find some peace, soon.
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I'm so sorry, Luckygirl; my thoughts are with you x