OH now on end-of-life care.

Dear Lucky girl. Thinking of you and sending you .
Take care now as best you can.
Dawn xx

There are some very generous ,empathetic people on GN. You, Jura are one. What a lovely, lovely offer to * Luckygirl*

Jura2, how lovely your offer to Lucky is, hope she takes you up on it.

I'm so sorry Lucky. Your DH was blessed to have such a caring and devoted family.

The next few days will be so hard Lucky- but then Spring will be upon us and you will slowly, but surely, regain strength and courage- and when are are ready ... I'd love you to come back to Switzerland and stay for a while- so I can show you my part of the world. When you are ready - you have my e-mail address and tel number.

Much love and hugs

Dear Luckygirl,
Let me add my sincere condolences on the loss of your beloved man.
He is at peace now.
I hope you and your girls are able to find some peace too, to sustain you through the next stages of your journey.

Your friends in the GN army are holding you and your lovely man in our thoughts. ?

Dear Luckygirl, I am so sorry to read your news, my deepest sympathies to you and your family. Remember to be kind to yourself xx

Lucky my deepest sympathy
May your beloved husband rest in peace now.

I can't add anything to Laurely's post, you did the very best anyone could do for your husband Luckygirl I hope you and your family find peace and comfort in the time to come.

Sending my deepest condolences to you Luckygirl and your family on the loss of your dear husband and father. You all will be in my thoughts and prayers.

My sincere condolences Luckygirl, but your man is at peace now, and pain free. xx

Love and hugs also to Scribbles xx

My sincere condolences. Take all the help and support you are offered. You deserve it having been such a loving support to your DH. ?

Luckygirl
It won't console you now, but GNetters are full of admiration for the way you have looked after and fought for the needs of your OH. You no longer need to do that - and this may make you feel useless. It is time for you to consider yourself. Sleep when you need to, cry when you need to, and be glad that your witty, erudite, musical man is beyond pain and fear. Rest and recover. I and many others are thinking of you of hoping that - if we need to be - we can be as kind, caring and determined as you have been.

Deepest sympathies at this sad time Luckygirl . My thoughts are with you and your family x

I would like to add my sincere condolences to you Luckygirl and to your girls. May you draw strength from one another in your grief.
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luckygirl howl away, it’s one of the bodies “healing mechanisms”.
I still howl for my parents when I am in the shower, I talk to them also when I shower.

Your dear husband is at peace, you and your girl’s are devastated and have many stages to go through.

Send virtual hugs

I’ve only just seen this thread. Luckygirl, what a dreadful time for both of you, but I’m glad his suffering is finally over. I do hope you will find some peace and rest now, amidst all the inevitable emptiness and awful sadness now that he’s gone. xx

I am so sorry for my typos. I have fat fingers and am very small of brain.

Luckygirl, you dont know me, imam only here because Imlost my mam recently.
I just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you. No one has, or will ever, experience what you are going through, because everyones pain is unique.

Just know that thise who 'know' you here are thinking of you, and those, like me, who dont rrally know you, still care deeply for how you feel.

Be kind to yourself, take care x

Just caught up with the news that your DH has passed away after much suffering (for your both) Luckygirl I am so sorry. xx

Your lovely dh is now at peace,no more suffering.

Sincere condolences to you Lucky and to your daughters xxx
He is at peace after such a long period of sadness for all of you. No words can express other than to say thinking of you sending love xx

Sincere condolences Luckygirl. Those of us who have passed this way know that no words can console you right now. Thinking of you

Lucky. Thinking of you and sending love. He’s at peace at last.
Take very good care of yourself, accept help and take every day as it comes.

So many kind words from so many directions today and they have helped sustain me - although I have howled and wept as well. Maybe I have to go there first before some sense of peace comes.