Thanks for all your helpful comments. Don't worry, BlueBelle - I wouldn't dream of contacting the school or doctor myself - totally agree that this is for the parents to monitor and sort out. I'm not going to interfere - just wondered if Gransnetters had some helpful advice and reassurance - which they have provided! The family live some distance away, so chances are with the new Covid restrictions in place, we won't be seeing them again any time soon, sadly.
Son on rebound - wants to marry
Things you find stressful that other people don't notice.
New house and a sloping garden