I'm a new grandparent. My first granddaughter was born 2 weeks ago. My daughter had a trouble-free pregnancy but had to have an emergency C-section. She has a very supportive husband and they live very close to me. She has suffered from panic attacks for many years and has recently sought help from her GP (sensibly saying she wanted to try and get better now that she is going to be a mam). She was diagnosed as having social anxiety. I want to try and help as much as I can, practically around the house, as well as helping them look after the baby. Sadly, her social anxiety extends to me too and she is getting really upset at the thought of my (as well as everyone else's) visits. She's trying to keep the world at bay, hiding behind drawn curtains and blinds. Today, I sent a text suggesting a walk with the pram, but when I got no reply, I made the mistake of walking down and knocking on the door unannounced. She got very upset and we both ended up in tears. I fear she is going to lock herself away and not let anyone help her. I'm also really sad that I'm not going to see my beautiful granddaughter as much as I could (I work full time, so it's not as if it would be that excessive - plus with living close by, it could easily only be for short 10 minute visits just for a quick cuddle, while I help fill the dishwasher or do something else practical). I really don't know what to do . . . any advice?
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