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Persistent clingy friend

(31 Posts)
CanadianGran Sat 19-Jun-21 22:00:44

wow, that is too much! Agree with others that you just need to let her know you need space. One meeting a week should be enough.

greenlady102 Sat 19-Jun-21 21:59:51

tell her you are taking a tech break for your mental and emotional health?

3dognight Sat 19-Jun-21 21:55:51

Tell her you need a friendship break, and you will not be answering her texts and calls for a while.
Friends have to give each other space.
She is too needy, I wonder if she has other friends??

Galaxy Sat 19-Jun-21 21:50:02

Sorry that wasnt a particularly helpful answer but as you have tried talking to her I think the only thing you can do is ignore.

Galaxy Sat 19-Jun-21 21:48:42

I couldnt tolerate that. I just wouldnt answer at all.

Nicea Sat 19-Jun-21 21:33:53

Does anyone have any tips for dealing with a friend who has become too clingy? She is not ill or in any kind of precarious situation but she now calls me every day and if I don’t pick up she sends texts and emails telling me to call her back or asking me why I am ‘sulking’. I’m just busy with something or someone else! She suggests we meet every couple of days and when I say I have other plans that day she promptly rings again the next day with yet another suggested meeting. It’s just too much. She has other friends, as do I, and I just can’t spend that much time with her or give her exclusive attention. I’ve tried having a conversation with her about this but to no avail. One morning she sent me nine text messages about trivial things she was doing. I don’t want to be unkind but her persistence is causing me stress and I need her to back off and give me some ‘space’!