I went through exactly the same thing as Franbern with planning everything round being near to a toilet etc before I also had an ileostomy in 1987. It changed my life and I was able to be a normal wife and mum.
I hope you can manage with treatment and medication. If there’s anything you want to ask just send a PM
German voters slide inexorably to common sense …
Do you feel guilty if you have a lie in??
Retiring and living frugally in money from downsizing after years of stress



