@Gwyneth. I’m so sorry for your loss too. My experience was pre-pandemic, so in no way could be blamed on the pressures we’ve seen since the start of 2020 and I’ve seen the same thing repeated several times among friends and family. As an example, the year before my husband passed away, a friend of ours saw her GP with what he diagnosed as a simple eye infection. He gave her antibiotics and she saw him again several times as she felt it wasn’t getting any better - the corner of her eyelid was being pulled down. In the end he prescribed anti-depressants as he thought she may have ‘anxiety’. In the end she made an appointment with her optician to see if there was anything they could do. The optician took one look and made a phone call to the hospital, then sent her straight there. After multiple tests and chest x rays she was diagnosed with advanced lung cancer and died four weeks later. The optician had seen the tumour damaging her eye and later said she couldn’t understand why the GP had wasted so much time when the symptoms clearly indicated the spread of lung cancer.
I know the point of the thread is the difficulty in getting appointments because of the pandemic, but I do think that at least some of the knock on effects of the pandemic have served to highlight the shortcomings in the GP service which have existed for years. As evidenced by some of the posts in the thread, the better GP’s are getting back to providing adequate services, whilst others are lagging far behind.
According to CRUK nearly 6 out of 10 UK diagnosed cancers are stage 4 or later and many of these are only diagnosed during investigation for other illnesses, or when the disease reaches crisis point and the patient presents at emergency services. They lay some of the blame at the door of GP’s for being poor at recognising signs which may indicate cancer. After my husband passed away, I found it really depressing that so many people had had similar experiences to my own, which is why the thought of one appointment for one problem only, horrifies me somewhat, as cancer can present so many diverse symptoms.
I have no faith in GP’s any more - this is not personal, but an indictment of the service as a whole. but even the best GP in the world can’t provide all of the things demanded of them without adequate tools for the job. Given that GP’s are in effect the gateway to the health service as the starting point for referrals, I don’t understand why so many who are clearly inadequate, are allowed to carry on regardless. My late husbands’ care was substandard in so many ways, but I found that in practice there was very little I could do about it. My present partner has diabetes and like many people on the thread is struggling to access services. I have no faith left at all in the GP service and as a consequence I have a very low threshold for contacting 111 to get him what he needs.