Thank you for your very kind and helpful comments and suggestions. I value your input.
The surgery is available on the NHS. The waiting list is endless, thanks to Covid preventing patients with life threatening conditions having to wait for many months longer for access to consultations and surgery.
Ross Hall is a private hospital. We paid initially for a consultation to help us to understand how bad/or not the prolapse was. We then paid a further sum for an investigation under anaesthetic. The cost of having surgery would be £25,000. We have already released equity from our home for previous health matters. In order to raise such a sum we would need 'Crowd Funding' which we are investigating.
My husband is in essence, my carer. I am very happy with the simple life we enjoy together. There are risks involved with any surgery. I could return home with a lessened quality of life. Who knows!
We are not ruling out any options. In fact, we spend a good many hours discussing the pros and cons. Three weeks to wait before I have a telephone conversation with the surgeon [in whom I have every confidence.]
How do I cope in the meantime? That's the question.
And yes, twenty years ago I underwent anterior/posterior ventral suspension surgery at a private hospital in Cornwall. It cost £5000. As a result of the surgery, I had to stay in hospital for ten days because my bowel would not perform. Over the years, the condition worsened. The private hospital have no record of the surgery performed. Previous consultations with NHS have asked what the surgery was. No details were available.
So, here we are.
Thank you and I am most grateful to you for taking the time to respond. It helps to talk.