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Kissing friends as a form of greeting

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Urmstongran Sun 12-Dec-21 11:48:47

We don’t do kissing now unless it’s family. Hugs with very dear friends. And cheery ‘hellos’ and smiles with everyone else. It’s safer and I think choices for the majority have changed.

EkwaNimitee Sun 12-Dec-21 11:39:19

Agreed, Espee and I am using COVID as an excuse to give up handshaking too. Always disliked it, sweaty hands…yuk!

henetha Sun 12-Dec-21 11:37:56

Definitely not kissing, but I did love hugging friends and family It's mostly stopped now, of course, and I miss it.
Anyone with a cold should certainly explain and refrain.

Audi10 Sun 12-Dec-21 11:37:16

I have always hated the tradition of kissing on both cheeks, so I wouldn’t ever do it, ( not ever) I think it’s ridiculous! I would say sorry each to their own it’s not something I do, but pleased to meet you etc, if they are going to take offence then that’s their problem, I’m quite assertive so I find it easy to say what I feel,

Grandma70s Sun 12-Dec-21 11:36:03

I agree with Esspee. It is wonderful not to feel obliged to hug and kiss everybody you meet. I wasn’t brought up to it, but it became a fashion we felt we had to go along with. Thank goodness, no longer!

Esspee Sun 12-Dec-21 11:29:14

I have never been a hugger except with people I love. Now I have the perfect excuse. Bliss.

Grandmabatty Sun 12-Dec-21 11:28:55

Speaking as a former kisser and hugger, I have no problem in a distant greeting at all. I don't think you would cause offence by refusing that particular form of greeting. If people find that cold, that says more about them than you.

Kim19 Sun 12-Dec-21 11:25:02

We tend to do lovely hugs now with faces in opposite directions.

abby0950 Sun 12-Dec-21 11:23:01

I have always objected to the social habit of kissing on one or both cheeks along with a hug when meeting friends/acquaintances, but went along with this trend. This is not just because of Covid. I remember one acquaintance kissing me on both cheeks one New Year about four years ago and then announced “I hope I don’t pass on this cold I have”. He did. I am now into day 6 of the most horrendous cold after meeting friends.

How can I put it graciously that I don’t want to greet people with the usual kiss and it has nothing to do with Covid. It comes over as being “cold” and I don’t want to offend.