iPadGrandma
Hello everyone, I hope you are all doing well.
I feel I have had a bit of an up and down week, but nothing has actually gone wrong. I have just felt that I should have been making more progress, I guess it’s all in my mind!
My dressing has gone now and the wound is very well healed and neat, so that is good. It’s only day 23 but I think the ten days in hospital on iv antibiotics have caught up with me.
Also, on about day three, the physio got me walking on one crutch which made me nervous. It was only the day before that I had fainted twice and they were monitoring me closely.
I couldn’t see what the hurry was to walk on one crutch quite so soon.
Anyway, I have struggled to do this since being home so felt I was useless and a failure! Not a good way to feel when you are trying to recover. But I managed to do a few nervous steps today with one crutch but, better still, managed to get in and out of our car fairly easily, and pain free. I hadn’t left the house for ten days, only walking in the garden, and that probably is not good for the my well-being!
Just a silly question, how do/did you all manage when going out somewhere, maybe a cafe or someone’s house without a raised loo seat in the first few weeks? I think I totally overthink everything. How can I be concerned about that?! Is three weeks post op too soon to be going somewhere else? My husband would like to take me out to our local pub for a meal; they do have a disabled toilet.
I realise the whole recovery is not a race, I just thought I was not doing well.
Best wishes to you all for the weekend!
iPadGrandma I'm wondering why you feel you're not doing well? I've been thinking about you and actually, went back to the old thread to see where I was at at around 3 to 4 weeks post op. I was definitely still using crutches when I was out and hadn't yet exchanged them for sticks. Mostly managed with one indoors but definitely needed the confidence of two in open areas. Another poster wondered why my progress was so slow (!) and I was truly shocked as I felt that I was doing really well. And I was and still am.
I ditched the booster toilet seat relatively early (hated it despite the relative comfort it afforded me) but if you still need it then yes, find a bag and take it out with you! Whatever it takes to make that journey back to normal life. Plan some treats for yourself. My poor husband was a bit aghast when I decided one Sunday, at the start of the season, that I really wanted to go to a car boot sale. Definitely a two crutch job and it really lifted my spirits. But he never left my side ?
You've reminded me how getting in and out of the car was such a challenge, would have been much easier if it had been my left hip that was replaced. I had far less trouble getting in the other side.
So in short, be kind to yourself. Your journey to recovery is yours alone and you have had some serious complicating factors (ie the septic arthritis & avascular necrosis) which will inevitably mean a more careful process. Many life changing events include a period of feeling quite 'down' after the event and I wonder if this is the case with you? Feel free to PM me if it helps.