Day was the pits. Spent the counselling session being bewildered about abuse and its sent me so low and CFS poorly can do so little and its hard to just keep up self care. she agreed I have to give up any hope of being able o talk things over with ex in any kind of benign or meaningful way without nasty attacks...said after divorce you will take a long time to drive and recover physically, I'm still afraid even then he will "Attack in some way. Bewildered - how can the love that was there be associated with malicious manipulation and threats - and rubbishing all the good things cant were there.
Ellie Anne I'm glad your DiL is able to share, so much around atm (looking in on separate thread on depression in GN)
Doodle of course you would rather be there not sitting home and fretting.
Best s for BD's, tomorrow is another day!
Do you live abroad and long for home ?