foxie 48, I feel conflicted too. Like you, I would not want anyone to encourage teenagers towards transitioning and taking hormones and drugs. They should be given time and support, and explanations about it being natural for many becoming adults, to have doubts about their sexuality, and explore the reasons why this might be. Tell them they will eventually have the choice, but that they must not rush into it. Kindness and tolerance should not be read as encouragement and certainly not, any form of cohersion.
There have been cases where young people who fully trans'ed. with hormone treatment, full ablation and reconstruction. who have regretted it at a later stage, and blamed the support they were given turned out to push them to act too soon.
Massively difficult. Kids are bombarded with TV programmes too, in which being gay, trans or a Drag Queen, is the only way to be 'interesting and fun'. Very sad.
My niece (ex nephew) was very clear. Aged 17 he sais clearly ' if you don't support me 100% in my choice to become female, hormones, breast, ablation and reconstruction - I will kill myself. She looks great, is married to a non gay man, and is a carer + happy, 10 years later. Don't know what the answer is.
Discrimination and restrictions as to what job she can or can't do, is certainly NOT the way. She is a great carer, and really appreciated and loved. That is good enough for me.
Why this matters so much to some of you, however, is beyond me. And this is my sincere opinion.