I take steroids and hate all the problems that they give but of course, love the fact that they remove pain.
Many drugs have side effects which can be visible or not but they do affect the body.
Methotrexate is an alternative drug to the steroids and I know of many people (on an on-line forum) who are very happy with it as they don't need the steroids!
I do know that Methotrexate is not prescribed willynilly and feel that if it has been suggested to you, you should consider it. There are always those wo have negative views of something and will voice them but those who have a positive view often don't vocalise.
I was prescribed a drug a year or two ago and although I know that the drug information sheets can be worrying, this was off the scale. I took the drug (which can have side-effects for many years after the course has finished) and so far have been fine and yes, it did help my illness but it was a decision that worried me, particularly at the time.
There is a wonderful website named 'HealthUnlocked' spelt as I have written it. This website is for anyone with any health problem as there are different groups on there. Methotrexate is often mentioned and discussed, so for impartial information I am sure that you will find help there. I found the site slightly awkward to use at first but am very glad I found it as it has helped me - and I have have been able to help others, too.
Glean as much knowledge as you can before making your decision and perhaps don't just listen to those for whom Methotrexate has not been a positive experience for there are bound to be more who have been helped by it.
Wishing you the best for your health.