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Mum moving from one NHS area to another after stay in hospital

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Vsdaughter Sun 14-Jan-24 10:44:58

Thanks everyone for your kind words and advice. It has been a very stressful and upsetting time and everything seems to be a battle at the moment but I will keep trying until there is a suitable solution.

eazybee Sun 14-Jan-24 10:13:33

I have no practical advice to offer, as it was thirty years ago when i was a long-distance carer, so the best of luck, and be persistent, insist on proper information before you leave, and ask everyone's name you speak to.

I think we are all realising how we 'little people' are being pushed around,thanks to the Post Office, and NHS Admin seems to act in a similar autocratic way. Stand firm and insist on proper information and make a complaint if you do not receive it.

Shelflife Sun 14-Jan-24 09:56:01

Good luck Vsdaughter, a stressful time for you and your Mum.

Vsdaughter Sun 14-Jan-24 09:30:52

1summer

Contact PALS, details on NHS website or call 111 for details. My experiences with them have been mostly good.

Thanks very much I have just looked up the details for that. Will get in touch with them tomorrow.

1summer Sun 14-Jan-24 09:28:02

Contact PALS, details on NHS website or call 111 for details. My experiences with them have been mostly good.

Vsdaughter Sun 14-Jan-24 09:21:05

Thanks Tortoiselover that’s what I was hoping. But I have tried that on the ward she is on and the hospital the appointment is with but they haven’t been able to help and seem to suggest that it’s not their problem once she is out of their area.

Tortoiselover Sun 14-Jan-24 09:12:59

The best way is for the NHS hospital she is currently to transfer her care to the new area. It is done electronically and is routine, it should not be a problem. Speak to her current hospital.

Vsdaughter Sun 14-Jan-24 09:01:01

Hi everyone
This is my first time posting so hope I’m in the right section. And apologies in advance if the post is too long.

My mum had a fall on stairs at home in December and broke her ankle. She was in hospital for a few weeks and now is in a rehab hospital. She has a boot on her foot and uses a walker to get around in hospital.

The hospital said she would be fine to go home eventually but she was to scared to with the stairs and given that there is no loo downstairs and that my stepdad (her partner for 30 years) died in November she was already planning on moving nearer to family as did not wish to be alone in the house.

She wanted to find some sheltered housing in the area near family where she lived for 20 years. As she needs a little extra help with the boot and would not be suitable for sheltered housing yet she would first spend 4-6 weeks self funded in a respite care home which has been arranged.

She is being discharged next week but she has an appointment scheduled with the hospital for an X-ray to see if she can take the boot off. I spoke to the consultant’s secretary and explained my mum would be in the new area but she did not have any advice how to get the appointment transferred. She was going to get the doctor to call me as part of a telephone appointment my mum had (I have LPA) but instead they called my mum and told her she must attend the appointment even though it’s three hours away and she wouldn’t be able to travel a 6 hour return journey in a car.

There is a local fracture clinic where she is going but I am not sure how to get her into the system there in time to have an appointment in two weeks. She will have to register with a GP when she gets to new area. Somebody suggested the only way is private but even then would she need to be referred by GP?
If anyone has any experience of this situation or any advice that would be greatly appreciated.