i thought i had ibs, gone to hospital to find out what could be done, it had got to the stage that i had to starve myself for 2 days just to leave the house. they did a scan and then a colonosopy and fond a tumor in my bowel, they snipped a bit and tested it, found it was positive, i had a fear of going into hospital, the surgeon was very straight with me, have the op or don't, he was not going to loose any sleep over it (exact words) and if i don't, he said i had about 6 months, i had the op 4 weeks later and came home after 4 days, it took me a bit longer to heal as i got an infection in the wound but they said it was rare, it has been 5 years to the day and i am still hear, i have been left with problems as i only have half of my bowel left and need to use a lot of loperamide tablets. my brother did a postal poo test and they found something and because of me he got it checked, not cancer but he had diverticulitis. my grandson was born the day after my op, it was so worth it as he is a joy to be around, please don't worry and explain to the nurses and doctors how nervous you are. hugs and good luck.