muckandnettles
I'm afraid that going 'cold turkey' is my only way with sugary things. I agree that nothing is off limits and no food is 'bad' but it depends how you do things and personally I'm better off cultivating a taste for garlic, cheese, chilli and herbs etc, rather than finding ways to appease my sweet tooth.
I agree with you. I've had T2 diabetes for half my life, but it's always been well-controlled. I avoid all obviously sweet things like the plague and my diet is low carb (ie carbs not just sugar).
I don't even try to find alternatives - I just avoid them and have developed low carb eating habits. There's no point having half a low sugar biscuit because I actually want the whole packet, so I don't want to be tempted.
A few times a year, I indulge and eat something really bad for me, like an enormous piece of chocolate cake.