Premature Grandson

Having been in your situation most contact is by text or face time which can be done from anywhere. You need to be strong for the road ahead so having a break will help with that. Try to relax and build up some energy reserves. Sending my best to you and your family.

Oh what a worrying time for you all. I wouldn’t go, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t. It all depends if you’re going to be able to relax away from home.
I know when I’m worried I’d rather be at home on call. Your daughter may need your support too. Hope the little one grows big and strong. Take care.

I'd say take the break. 90 minutes away is nothing at all and your daughter and the baby are in the best possible place - you can still be in touch and support your daughter with messages and, if she is up to it, calls (but not constantly.)

I am holding you all in my thoughts and send all my best to you, your daughter and the precious little one.

Take the break, it is 90 minutes away, and your daughter is happy for you. Congratulations.

Your daughter and baby will be well looked after. Take that break and when you return you will be ready to look after them .
Congratulations

As others have said do go you will be able to get back fairly quickly if needed.
I send my very best wishes to you, your daughter and your precious grandson

Mandy45 my heart goes out to you and your family
If I put myself in your situation, I couldn't enjoy a break away from home at this time but each of us is different. At that weight and gestation, this is going to be a very rocky road indeed.
I'm sure you'll find your way to the right decision

Go you ll still be near enough to get there if necessary anyway your daughter wants you to go so do as she wants
Good luck with the little one he ll probably grow to be a 6 footer

to you and your husband and daughter. Fingers crossed for your grandson. All the best.

Go, then you will be fit to help when the new little family need it! Congratulations

I would go on your break as it is not too far away.

I lived over two hours away from my parents and when it came to it I was able to be there within a reasonable time frame.

You are not neglecting anybody if you go. Your DD and GS are in good hands.

Congratulations

Please go and your DH will keep in touch.

Sending good wishes and thoughts to you all xx

Do go, your daughter is happy for you to do that. It seems you badly need the break and it will give you time recharge your batteries - You will then be in a stronger position to support your DD on your return. An hour and a half away is not too far for you to return if necessary.
I can well imagine your heart aches for your DD and her tiny son. It's a double whamy for you. Go and have a well deserved break .
I wish your DD and your precious little grandson the very best . 💐💐

Go. It’s only one and a half hours away. You will come back the better for it and you can support your daughter and grandson.