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My dentist is odd

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Shelflife Thu 03-Oct-24 18:54:52

My thoughts too silverlining. Baggs if your dentist does a good job , just try and switch off - not easy I know but a good dentist is worth keeping!

Oreo Thu 03-Oct-24 18:10:13

dalrymple23

No, TerriB, not just you. Years ago, we had one who would put about 20 bits of kit in one's mouth, then ask, "How is mother?" "How is father?" "How are the children?" Of course, the only answers were "goo, ga, gew"!

😂

silverlining48 Thu 03-Oct-24 17:36:21

Baggs you say your dentist doesn’t make eye contact and it’s possible your dentist may have autism.

pascal30 Thu 03-Oct-24 16:28:06

My practice has a new hygienist and he kept calling me 'my dear'.. I found it intensely annoying as he was about 35.. I'd find it so from anyone TBH.. I'm weighing up whether it is worth any unpleasantness to say something next time..

Oldbat1 Thu 03-Oct-24 16:17:57

Have a really lovely dentist - private as no nhs here taking patients. Cant fault him.

Allira Thu 03-Oct-24 14:56:32

We had a woman dentist who took over after our old dentist retired.
She used to ask questions when she had her hands in your mouth which made it impossible to answer, didn't explain procedures properly (I ended up having an extraction when a crown would have been the better option) and was generally just not very good. She moved away, thank goodness.

My present dentist is lovely, she is very professional but friendly too.

dalrymple23 Thu 03-Oct-24 14:25:13

No, TerriB, not just you. Years ago, we had one who would put about 20 bits of kit in one's mouth, then ask, "How is mother?" "How is father?" "How are the children?" Of course, the only answers were "goo, ga, gew"!

nanna8 Thu 03-Oct-24 14:23:10

Mine talks nonstop,too. I think he is a bit hyper but I really like him and he is a very,very good dentist. He will retire soon and he was asking what to do in retirement- a bit hard to answer when you are in the chair with your mouth wide open !

BigBertha1 Thu 03-Oct-24 14:10:47

He might calm down once he gets to know his patients.

mokryna Thu 03-Oct-24 14:06:01

Oh, we don’t have hygienists here in France. It’s the dentist we pay for and it’s them who do the job.

mokryna Thu 03-Oct-24 14:04:36

I wish my dentist would give me a running commentary of what they are about to do and what they think of the state of my teeth.

TerriBull Thu 03-Oct-24 14:00:34

It never ceases to amaze me how dentists and hygienists for that matter, seem to want to have some sort of two way conversation when, me the patient, is horizontal with mouth wide open, maybe just my experience.

B9exchange Thu 03-Oct-24 13:37:12

If he is NHS and looks after your teeth well, you are truly blessed! Perhaps take earbuds and your phone, and say you need to listen to music to relax you? 😄

Baggs Thu 03-Oct-24 13:33:44

He is probably also a good dentist though I haven't had much treatment from him yet.

The thing is, he has a lot to say and talks extremely fast as if he were nervous, and while doing so doesn't look one in the eye. I'm talking about before and after one is reclined in The Chair.

I suppose it is odd that I've noticed this too but, having lived in a number of different places and having had a number of dentists, all of them good, some of them excellent, it just strikes me how odd, in comparison, my current one is.

Perhaps it's the speed chattiness. I've never had a chatty dentist before. They said what needed to be said clearly and calmly and not at top speed.

Ah well, at least I have a dentist to go to.