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How to prepare house before hip op

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Visgir1 Sat 08-Feb-25 16:53:12

I have had both my Hips and a TKR. Last THR around 2 years ago. I did use the Hip and Knee thread very helpful but your right it's long. I did have a telephone call from the Physio prior to my last Hip replacement, asking about Hight of chairs, bed etc. They sent me a contraption to fit to my loo to help me, and a 'perching stool " to make life easier, when you have fully recovered they take it away.
You will be surprised how much better you will be, it's almost instant pain relief. They might be able to get you some home support if you need it.
As for the upstairs loo you might need a commode?
Talk to the OT /Physio either before if they contact you or in Hospital they will help and advise you.
Won't be long until your pain free, best of luck.

Judy54 Sat 08-Feb-25 16:39:14

You are doing the right thing BEA65 in thinking and preparing ahead. No experience of hip replacement but Mr J has had ops on his foot including an ankle replacement. On each occasion he was in plaster for around 3 months and had to sleep downstairs as He was unable to weight bear. We did exactly what you are saying, prepared meals for the freezer, moved things to lower cupboards (as I cannot reach the high ones). To make things easier we had supermarket deliveries, they were really helpful and brought everything into the kitchen for me. Bathing was a combination of strip washes at the sink and baby wipes. The more you can think ahead the better, well done for being so pro-active. All good wishes for your op.

Crossstitchfan Sat 08-Feb-25 16:34:44

Aveline

Many of us have spent hours sharing this info already. I remain unimpressed at the OP. I see that kind Charleygirl is willing to rewrite the information yet again.

That’s neither a kind nor a helpful comment! Why do you always have to be so nasty? I have noticed this in your previous posts.

Shelflife Sat 08-Feb-25 16:25:38

My Mum had a hip replacement 40+ years ago , It lasted her very well she died aged 92. She stayed with me for about a week, I remember it well as I was expecting our second child. She went home after a week and didn't have any special aids. She asked about physio and her consultant said
" The best physio is for you to walk"
I recognize it depends on the age/ general health of the patient . Mum was about 75 and in good health. It was a remarkable operation for her although I am sure replacement hips are far more sophisticated now. Good luck !
Aveline - an unnecessary comment.

Astitchintime Sat 08-Feb-25 16:13:41

Speak to the Occupational Therapy team at the hospital - they will have all manner of aids and ideas to help. I got a raised loo seat from them and the Red Cross delivered a hand rail for around the loo.

NotAGran55 Sat 08-Feb-25 15:58:52

Bea65 my 85 year old MIL is currently recovering from a partial hip replacement following a fall. She was in hospital for 6 nights after the operation until it was considered safe for her to go home. She had no complications, it all went well. There was no opportunity for her to prepare anything in advance in the house.
No stairs to negotiate.

A package of aids arrived at the house the day before she got home - a walker,a grabber, 2 little seats to sit at sinks etc, and bars were fitted around the loos to help with getting off!

She is having a carer every morning for 3 weeks, for an hour a day officially to assist with personal care. In reality the carer is staying for almost 2 hours some days, washing and styling hair etc.
In addition, a community nurse is visiting for 3 weeks to give her the blood thinning injection into her abdomen because she can’t do it herself. MIL lives with FIL who is 91 with mobility issues of his own.

An OT chap turned up one day to give her tips, and to check how she was doing.

All the care was arranged for her on discharge from hospital, so try not to worry too much in advance.

Bea65 Sat 08-Feb-25 14:55:52

🙏🙏to all who have left kind helpful comments.. have already emptied kitchen bottom cupboards- have a trolley… need a loan of a high chair with arms.. and need a 2nd grabber - my bed has a grab rail attached but will get a slip/slide sheet- never heard of those🙏
Just think am panicking…have already been informed that it’s a 1 night stay unless complications arise - not like a decade ago when my sister had same op and went to convalesce for 3-4 wks- weeks .. also you have to arrange after care yourself- it’s all changed..GP manager said district nurses aren’t going to homes to check on/replace surgical dressings- this is worrying me more…

silverlining48 Sat 08-Feb-25 14:06:27

Hello Bea, if you used the hip and knee thread you Woukd get responses from people who have all had experience of both.
I had my new hip 2 years ago and was given sticks and a raised toilet seat. The rest I picked up prior to surgery. No input from OT. That doesn’t happen now.
You will actually manage your stairs from the outset, and suggest great care if getting into the bath post op. A wash at the sink works if need be.

Aveline Sat 08-Feb-25 10:56:56

Many of us have spent hours sharing this info already. I remain unimpressed at the OP. I see that kind Charleygirl is willing to rewrite the information yet again.

Charleygirl5 Sat 08-Feb-25 10:37:36

annodomini Times have changed, and not for the better. The first kitchen Bea will see will be her own. I also had a trolley delivered after my second knee op, which is exceptional.

The surgery is barely an overnight stay and, in some places, day surgery.

annodomini Sat 08-Feb-25 10:26:45

My THR is now almost 20 years old and - I hope - still OK. When I'd had the op, the physios were quick to get me out of bed and walking. They taught me how to use the stairs, using my stick and the handrail; the occupational therapists observed me in the kitchen and I rehearsed getting in and out of the bath. When I got home, Social Services supplied a trolley so that I could convey food safely from cooker to table. A neighbour who had been through THR twice, lent me blocks to raise my bed, as well as a raised loo seat. As for exercise, I was advised to practise walking every day, and each time, I walked a bit further until I could reach the local corner shop.

Charleygirl5 Sat 08-Feb-25 10:26:22

Very sensible advice from NotAGran.

You will not be allowed to wear slip-on slippers; they must have a back. Night dresses are easier than PJs. Everything should be loose and comfortable. If your shoes are not slip-on, have you got a long-handled shoe horn and elastic shoelaces?

NotAGran55 Sat 08-Feb-25 10:17:18

No personal experience but I supported a friend who lived alone with nobody staying.
In advance she removed stuff from low cupboards in her kitchen, and put everything on the work surfaces or into higher cupboards.
She borrowed a higher chair with arms from a local charity she had contacts with.
She bought slip-on style shoes that she wouldn’t normally wear.
She wore a crossbody bag at all times with her phone in it, just in case she needed emergency help.
She has grabbers dotted around the house in different rooms.

Good luck with the operation and recovery Bea65

Charleygirl5 Sat 08-Feb-25 10:16:41

Your bed may be too low and need to be raised. Each hospital is different. Many do little;e whereas others are really good. Some will place a board over your bath, but it may be difficult to reach the shower controls safely.

Many armchairs are too low, but if you look at the hips and knees thread, you will see an excellent photo of what is required.

It may be helpful to buy a second picker upper so you have one upstairs as well. If you are discharged using crutches or two sticks, maybe a bag around your neck to carry odd items.

When your daughter leaves, throw washing downstairs, use picker upper and a carrier bag and take it in small amounts to the washing machine.

Could you afford a cleaner for three months, even fortnightly? You won't be able to change your bed so she can do it and put the laundry in the machine.

With my background, I could write a practical book, so come back if you have any more questions. You will be welcomed if you join the hips and knees brigade.

I have had bil. knees and need a hip.

tanith Sat 08-Feb-25 10:00:13

I’ve had both hips replaced and had no downstairs loo but you won’t be discharged till you’ve climbed a flight with the physios so no need for a commode. After I had my first hip done we replaced the bath with a walk-in shower as it wasn’t safe climbing in and out anymore. A strip wash will be fine for a short while. I was fine around the house with one crutch for a few days and then a stick for a week when having a short stroll outside.
I can’t emphasise enough that you do all exercises that the physios give you I found lying on the bed ones very useful.

Good luck with it, free from the terrible grinding pain.

Jaxjacky Sat 08-Feb-25 09:37:54

Bea I haven’t had it done, but a friend has, the hospital ensure you can manage stairs, she also bought large ‘sheets’ like big baby wipes for a wash or just strip washed until a shower was possible. A ‘picker upper’ (as used for litter picking) to get things off the floor and a gizmo to help get socks on. That’s all I remember.
Good luck

Redhead56 Sat 08-Feb-25 09:37:06

I forgot to say I hope your op goes well.

Redhead56 Sat 08-Feb-25 09:35:52

I had my THR 13 yrs ago told to higher the chair I sit in my son put wood under the chair to raise it up. Get a seat for the toilet which I did clip on from Amazon you can get them elsewhere I believe. Basically don’t sit on low furniture and ask for a slide sheet for bed so it’s easier to get out of bed.
My son put up another rail for me on the stairs too and it’s still there so much easier for me. I was told not to drive for three months and didn’t but bought a raised cushion for passenger seat. It’s easier to get in the car when seat is higher. My consultant told me to get soft wedge for my shoe as I was walking unevenly. I was also told not to rely on walking sticks etc which I didn’t after physio I carried on doing steps on our last few stairs to build up muscle strength in legs.
Most important for me I could not take the pain relief prescribed so I kept paracetamol on hand.

Grandmabatty Sat 08-Feb-25 09:14:02

I think that's a very unkind comment to someone who is asking for advice. I hope the OP gets more helpful comments.

Aveline Sat 08-Feb-25 09:04:48

It's worth it. Those of us with relevent experience have already written about it. Sorry you can't be bothered to read it.

Bea65 Sat 08-Feb-25 09:02:37

Have briefly scanned the hips knees thread but it soo long and trying to keep life ahead as simple as possible and not get too stressy 🤔

Aveline Sat 08-Feb-25 09:02:07

Just check out the hip and knee thread. All this info is there

Bea65 Sat 08-Feb-25 08:53:07

Have THR appt 6 weeks time…cancelled twice - live alone but will have AD staying for 10 days only…would appreciate all advice about practical things… know how to fill the freezer with ready meals etc but how do I manage the daily bathing etc…
Am and always have been extremely independent so am fretting about not being able to move around house .. have just had second handrail fitted on stairs..don’t have downstairs loo so might have to loan equipment like a commode .. but who would empty it? These are my thoughts ATM and I c an’t use my shower which is over the bath but can’t get leg over the bath..has any GN been in this situation?
Have tried to get practical advice from GP BUT was told they can’t arrange anything until I’ve had the surgery…