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Drama Sun 08-Jun-25 10:30:01

The day is almost here! I'm feeling very nervous.
Having 2 lower front teeth extracted due to abscess under one and bone loss under both.
I'm having a new partial immediate denture to replace the one I have now, which has all my back teeth on it. The existing one is a metal one but I'm having acrylic now, so that teeth can be added in future if necessary. A big difference in feeling I know.
I'm really worried as my private dentist won't make a follow up appointment for 3 months when she'll check the fit.
I thought I would have a follow up for adjustment after a few days. She just said I can make an appointment if necessary for denture sores. The problem is that 10 days after the extraction, she is going on holiday and the surgery will be closed.
I'm expecting sores as my existing one took a lot of adjusting at first. I will probably end up not wearing it and will stay home for months so that no one will see me.
Any advice to help with sores? Saltwater I know but can I use bonjela or anything straight away?
Thanks

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NotSpaghetti Thu 12-Jun-25 09:13:35

Well done!
And pleased she will check you next week.

I hope this goes some way to helping others face their dentistry fears too!
flowers

welbeck Wed 11-Jun-25 21:38:26

Well done.
You are very brave actually.

Drama Wed 11-Jun-25 17:48:25

Thank you. Have taken paracetamol now and much better.
I've managed to eat a mashed banana and Greek yogurt. Beautiful !!

LadyGracie Wed 11-Jun-25 17:03:40

I’m glad it’s over, the next part is easier, a couple of paracetamol when you’re able takes the edge off. I hope you have no problems.

Oldbat1 Wed 11-Jun-25 15:31:43

Well done! Pleased it is over for you. “Just” the healing process. Hope you can take painkillers soon - perhaps soluable paracetamol or even childrens calpol.

Smileless2012 Wed 11-Jun-25 15:22:18

Glad it's over Drama and went well flowers

Drama Wed 11-Jun-25 15:16:15

Well, it's done!
I didn't feel a thing at the time but quite painful now as I can't take painkillers until I can drink later on.
The teeth look much better than I expected. The denture will need adjusting but I've persuaded the dentist to see me next week for a check up before she goes away. She said it's a bit early but if it puts my mind at rest, she's happy to do it.

Polly7 Mon 09-Jun-25 20:30:32

If any bruising arnica works wonders Iv just used it after extraction

4allweknow Mon 09-Jun-25 20:04:57

Your dentist will be allowing time for the gums to heal and shrink. When you go back you will probsbly need an adjustment to accommodate the gum shrinkage. If you have any difficulty before the appointment eg plate being too loose or difficulty chewing then ask for an earlier appointment.

Drama Mon 09-Jun-25 19:29:14

Knspol. The problem is that she is away on and off for the next 2 months, so would be difficult to slot in.
I just have to be a big girl and get on with it. Lol.
Only one more day to wait but I have got a sore gum at the left side now! I don't know if that could be due to jaw clenching or if it's yet another problem developing! Nothing showed up at my check up when the abscess was found.
Maybe I put extraction off for too long so that I could get an immediate denture.

AuntieE Mon 09-Jun-25 17:36:54

Glycerin usually helps with blisters in the mouth, but I suspect you should not use it if you have open sores, or until the gum has closed properly after the extraction.

Ask your pharmacist about this, please.

I hope your new dentures do fit without any bother.

knspol Mon 09-Jun-25 17:23:17

Dentist visits make me so nervous so I understand your feelings, always say to myself that "this time tomorrow it will be over and done with" and it helps a little.
Regarding your dentist going away I would ask her what action you should take if you do have sores/discomfort etc while she's away and if you're not happy then maybe postpone your visit until after her holidays.

Hil1910 Mon 09-Jun-25 17:17:59

After an issue with a failed bridge I opted for a new metal partial denture. I had to wait awhile to have it fitted and was extremely grateful to be able to still wear a mask outdoors. It was very much a lifesaver so don’t worry too much it’s always an option for you.

Drama Mon 09-Jun-25 14:32:40

Thank you, Wellbeck.
Yes, I'm preparing soft meals and snacks. I can get supermarket deliveries, but most have a minimum order and as I'm on my own, I can't reach that.
I'm well stocked in the freezer though

welbeck Mon 09-Jun-25 00:28:06

How about giving your attention to making lists of foods to buy or prepare for afterwards.
Things that will be easy to eat while the mouth is settling down.
I find soft and slippery foods are useful during any kind of unwellness or discomfort.
This would be something positive to focus on.
Reward yourself with something a bit luxurious.
Can you get food delivered?

Madmeg Sun 08-Jun-25 20:33:08

Oh, it's not at all stupid Drama - it is natural to want to look at least normal, if not better.

Good luck with your upcoming blood test.

Drama Sun 08-Jun-25 20:09:42

I really should check my replies before posting !!
I meant a gap is so unimportant and that I had colon cancer

Drama Sun 08-Jun-25 20:06:26

I totally understand that. You have been through a lot.
It's just vanity and embarrassment with me. I wouldn't change my dentist for an NHS one now as she accepts how nervous I am and is kind. I don't have a plan either. As long as I can afford it, I will stay with her.
In the scheme of things a gap is so important.
I had coming cancer 3 years ago and wasn't as stressed by that as I am with a stupid tooth problem.
Fortunately, I didn't need chemo, just surgery. I'm due for my 4th year blood test now, so fingers crossed.
Wishing you continuing good health.

Madmeg Sun 08-Jun-25 19:48:40

I can't get a plan as my problems are many and permanent, and there are no NHS dentists now for miles. Plus I have every confidence in him over the 20 years I have been with him so to me it is worth every penny. On top of that, it was at a routine check up that he spotted the oral cancer - so I could say he saved my life which was far more important than a couple of plastic teeth (or lack of).

During the year of cancer treatment I could not wear a denture so I (and everyone else) just got used to seeing me with a gap. I became quite proud of it!

Drama Sun 08-Jun-25 19:18:18

I've had a partial with back teeth on both sides for 8 years without a problem but the 2 teeth that are being extracted at the font have severe gum recession, so the denture will just sit in the sockets with no false gum in front, just a flange at the back. I'm dreading how it will look.
I also have the opposite problem to you with spacing, there are large gaps between my natural teeth, so my dentist suggested having 3 teeth at the front instead. She assures me it will look fine as it will be centered. !!!! I think i will never leave the house again. I am so upset.

Madmeg Sun 08-Jun-25 17:40:50

I had a partial denture for several years (at the front lower jaw) and never had an issue with it. But during oral cancer treatment in 2023 it wouldn't fit. So in 2024 I had a new plate but cos my teeth had moved (a) it only has two teeth instead of three) and due to changes in the slope of the other teeth it doesn't fit as well. It often comes loose such that I am afraid I will swallow it!

My dentist said I should wear it at least 50% of the day, which I try to do, but have just bought some poligrip to try. It works wonders for my appearance.

BlueBelle Sun 08-Jun-25 14:41:10

Drama 🤗
I saw a private lady as a one off last time, it cost me just over £200 I can’t afford to have her as my dentist full time, but I m going to see if she would help me again but I don’t know if she will without me going on some private plan
I really feel for you and sending some positive vibes for you across the internet

Drama Sun 08-Jun-25 14:25:55

I feel for you. BlueBelle
I was terrified of the dentist's after a bad childhood experience, so my teeth were in a shocking state.
It got to the point where i just had to go and a friend recommended my dentist. She is really nice and after 2 visits, i felt fine going back. She is private, though, so costs a fortune.
It's just that i am now facing extraction and immediate denture. I think not knowing what the front will look like is freaking me out in case i look awful and can't wear it.
Also i know there will be a lot of pain for weeks, what with extractiin ans sore gums.
I hope you find a nice dentist. If you can afford to go private, maybe you can ask around? I can't face changing to NHS even if i could find one as i am also worried about what they would be like, even though friends have got lovely ones.
Do try and go, though. I wish i had plucked up courage earlier and i might not have lost a lot of teeth.

BlueBelle Sun 08-Jun-25 13:51:06

I m looking for a back tooth removal thats been playing up for months I m a nervous patient around dentists and the last one at our practice was so horrible rough and rude to me that I put a complaint in, months later I got a reply from him completely turning the tables saying I was demanding and I shouted at him 🙄 !! but anyway I refused to see him again and I now know of three other people who have complained about him
Anyway I asked to be put on another dentists books and they did I had a check up with the new chap and he was nice very easy going so I wasn’t nearly so nervous, when it was time for another check up with him I trotted along only to find he’d left and now I have no dentist again (I know they ll put me on someone’s books ) but I don’t know who and I m most likely going to need an extraction pretty soon!!!
Can you imagine how I feel
Sorry I m not helping you Drama