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Husband In Hospital Needs Operation.

(43 Posts)
Luckygirl3 Tue 05-Aug-25 19:29:50

You will be in my thoughts .....

Is there someone taking care of you?

sodapop Tue 05-Aug-25 19:12:46

Thoughts and prayers from me too Nanato3 I hope all goes well for your husband. Lots of ideas for help on here I hope you are able use them. thanks

Jaxjacky Tue 05-Aug-25 19:10:59

Nanato3 do you have help now for yourself in your situation? You both may need it when your husband is recuperating at home too.

Sago Tue 05-Aug-25 18:16:17

🙏will do.

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Aldom Tue 05-Aug-25 18:07:23

Lots of advice on here, but if you are alone without help please ring Age Concern. I think they can help you.
Sending you love and strength to help you through this difficult time.
It must be extremely emotionally painful to be unable to visit your husband. My heart really does go out to you. Holding you close in my thoughts. flowers

Horatia Tue 05-Aug-25 17:56:48

Nanato3 I will pray for you and your husband gladly.

pably15 Tue 05-Aug-25 17:53:56

Nanato3, you and your husband are in my thoughts and prayers, if I am worried about any of my family, I speak to my loved ones who have passed away, I ask them to look after and and protect and I will do the same for your husband,,,I do hope that somehow you manage to see him sending love..

BlueBelle Tue 05-Aug-25 17:52:19

Can you do a video call each evening to keep in touch with him, not the same I know but better than nothing
Just to hopefully reassure you heart operations seem to be an area where medical procedures work very well so fingers crossed your husband will respond well and be home with you sooner than you expect
As you are housebound have you got family friends or professionals to help you while you are alone if not please ring your surgery and ask for a social worker to visit you
Fingers crossed for you both x

Blossoming Tue 05-Aug-25 17:38:03

Nanato3 what a difficult situation, you will be in my thoughts. I hope that the hospital are treating your husband well and he is able to come home soon. Would you be able to visit with assistance? There may be a local organisation that could help.

Nanato3 Tue 05-Aug-25 17:02:23

Thank you sukie Norah JaneJudge and Greenfinch
Much appreciated x

Greenfinch Tue 05-Aug-25 14:38:15

Nothing will stop you worrying Nanato3 but it sounds as if he is being very well cared for. I will hold you both in my prayers and hope you will feel the power of love surrounding you.

JaneJudge Tue 05-Aug-25 14:35:33

Nanto3, I'm sorry to hear this. Sending all my love. Have you any children who are good with technology who could assist in a facetime type of visit or even a phonecall?

Norah Tue 05-Aug-25 14:33:07

Praying for you and your husband. flowers

sukie Tue 05-Aug-25 14:12:16

I've said a prayer for your husband and for you Nanato3. It's not the same as being there in person, but is it possible to video chat with your dh? Perhaps there is someone who could help set that up. flowers

Nanato3 Tue 05-Aug-25 14:07:35

Jaxjacky and Ziplok Thanks for the replies .
I Could get a lift into the hospital but I'm almost bedbound due to the health conditions I have and I'm in constant severe pain. I couldn't cope with the journey.

Thank you for your support it's much appreciated.

Ziplok Tue 05-Aug-25 12:09:03

Sorry to hear that Nanato3. Yes, I’ll say a prayer for you.
However, if you contact the hospital they might have a scheme whereby someone can come and collect you for visiting, given your circumstances.

Jaxjacky Tue 05-Aug-25 12:05:01

Nanato3 he will be in my thoughts, how awful for you, no one to give you a lift at all, whereabouts are you? I can if you’re near x

Nanato3 Tue 05-Aug-25 11:59:34

My husband was rushed into hospital last Thursday and the consultant has told him today that he will be in for the foreseeable future has he has a narrowing in his heart and he needs an operation. Has you can imagine I'm worried sick about him and to make matters worse I'm housebound and haven't been able to see him since he went into hospital.

Would those of you that believe in the power of prayer please pray for him to make a full recovery. He's such a good person. Thank you x