Husband In Hospital Needs Operation.

Nanato3 he will be in my thoughts, how awful for you, no one to give you a lift at all, whereabouts are you? I can if you’re near x

Sorry to hear that Nanato3. Yes, I’ll say a prayer for you.
However, if you contact the hospital they might have a scheme whereby someone can come and collect you for visiting, given your circumstances.

Jaxjacky and Ziplok Thanks for the replies .
I Could get a lift into the hospital but I'm almost bedbound due to the health conditions I have and I'm in constant severe pain. I couldn't cope with the journey.

Thank you for your support it's much appreciated.

I've said a prayer for your husband and for you Nanato3. It's not the same as being there in person, but is it possible to video chat with your dh? Perhaps there is someone who could help set that up.

Praying for you and your husband.

Nanto3, I'm sorry to hear this. Sending all my love. Have you any children who are good with technology who could assist in a facetime type of visit or even a phonecall?

Nothing will stop you worrying Nanato3 but it sounds as if he is being very well cared for. I will hold you both in my prayers and hope you will feel the power of love surrounding you.

Thank you sukie Norah JaneJudge and Greenfinch
Much appreciated x

Nanato3 what a difficult situation, you will be in my thoughts. I hope that the hospital are treating your husband well and he is able to come home soon. Would you be able to visit with assistance? There may be a local organisation that could help.

Can you do a video call each evening to keep in touch with him, not the same I know but better than nothing
Just to hopefully reassure you heart operations seem to be an area where medical procedures work very well so fingers crossed your husband will respond well and be home with you sooner than you expect
As you are housebound have you got family friends or professionals to help you while you are alone if not please ring your surgery and ask for a social worker to visit you
Fingers crossed for you both x

Nanato3, you and your husband are in my thoughts and prayers, if I am worried about any of my family, I speak to my loved ones who have passed away, I ask them to look after and and protect and I will do the same for your husband,,,I do hope that somehow you manage to see him sending love..

Nanato3 I will pray for you and your husband gladly.

Lots of advice on here, but if you are alone without help please ring Age Concern. I think they can help you.
Sending you love and strength to help you through this difficult time.
It must be extremely emotionally painful to be unable to visit your husband. My heart really does go out to you. Holding you close in my thoughts.

🙏will do.

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Nanato3 do you have help now for yourself in your situation? You both may need it when your husband is recuperating at home too.

Thoughts and prayers from me too Nanato3 I hope all goes well for your husband. Lots of ideas for help on here I hope you are able use them.

You will be in my thoughts .....

Is there someone taking care of you?

You are both in my thoughts Nanato3.
Stay strong for both your sakes💐

Thinking of you both nanato3.

Please ask those round your for support, your husband is being cared for by professional staff, important not to forget your own needs. A video call would be a good way of keeping in touch, it really does help to see someone we’re worried about. My love to you both.

Thanks everyone for your kind words, it means a lot .
I am able to speak to my husband on the phone , but the signal is terrible and we often have to text, but at least we are in touch.

I have a daughter, she called in yesterday evening and did a few household tasks for me but until then I had seen no one for 3 days has she works full time. She can't get to the hospital until the weekend due to her work, she would take me but I spend most of my time in bed due to my health conditions.

It's the waiting that gets to you and the not knowing when they are going to operate. Patience isn't my strong point I'm afraid.

Nanato3 please don’t take this the wrong way and I know our kids are busy but if you are housebound and nearly bed bound you need more than someone popping in to do a few chores once a week
Please please consider looking for some temporary help if you can afford it yourself, or ring one of the charities or ask for a social worker to visit They can arrange so much in the way of help
Who is cooking you meals and helping with your care and safety I know your husband is very poorly but the doctors and nurses will be seeing to this needs I m worried about your needs
I don’t know your age or family situation ….have you grandkids old enough to be helpful any family near by please ask for help people always presume you’re ok even when you aren’t

Nanato3 you and your DH are in my thoughts and prayers.

Call Adult Social Services..they should get someone to help you in the home arrange food etc.
I'm so sorry to read your worry. Takes me back to lockdown when my husband was in hospital no vistors at all..I sincerely hope someone arranges help for you now as well as when your husband comes home. Hopefully the hospital will arrange a care package for you both xx

Thinking of you and sending love and prayers. Please try to get some help at home through the GP as your first port of call xxx