👯‍♀️ Hips and Knees part 7

I got home last night - just a one night stay. It’s easier here - the loo is about 5 yards away rather than 30 ish. And I like my bed!

nannytopsy I was in hospital for 3 nights after each of my hip replacements, my choice as I didn’t feel ready after 2 nights. You’ll be glad to get home, whenever you are discharged, it’s always difficult to sleep in hospital.

The lack of sleep is one of the worst things about hospitals. Hope you’re able to get home Nannytopsy and start catching up. Just remember to take it very easy.

I did feel very lightheaded when the physios got me walking, so they kept me in for the night. There’s one very noisy lady on the ward and I didn’t get to sleep all night.

I can't believe you have had surgery. Is there a dressing to confirm it?!!!

If you don't feel ready to go home, I would have a spell of faintness when on my feet!

I am so pleased it is over and done with, and you can only improve daily.

Nannytopsy

Well I haven’t got to sleep yet 😳
I am relaxed, warm, comfortable and pain free (as long as I stay still!) and absolutely wide awake. The ward is pretty quiet but no sleep despite the opioids! Should be out tomorrow!

Nannytopsy, I’m glad all has gone well. Lie back, relax and let people look after you for a bit.

Congratulations Nannytopsy - sending you good wishes for a good, steady recovery. Make the most of your stay - I was in for two nights, came out on the third day. Just bite the bullet, lie back and obey instructions, particularly the ones about exercise! All the very best, big hugs! x

Well I am back on the ward! The surgeon has popped in and all went well. He said it was very worn out so I’m reassured I wasn’t being a wuss 🤣.
Just had some nice opioids …
All the talk of home today seems like wishful thinking. A nurse has said hips usually stay 3 days.

Unless you are really lucky you will have another long wait after the initial appointment. Keep stressing you can be admitted very quickly (if that is possible).

I think being a polite nuisance works! (oh God, not that bloody woman again!)

Thank you I will do that.

I would ring the the hospital to say how much pain you are in and ask
if there is a cancellation list. Also speak to your gp and see if they can get it closer date, it is a long wait for an initial appointment. There coukd be other hospitals with less of a list. Ask the surgery.
Good luck. 🤞

I was originally given an appointment for 2nd April to be assessed for a hip replacement operation. Last week I received an email from the hospital informing me that my appointment has been put back until the 14the September! I was originally referred by my GP in August last year,so I think this is an excessively long wait just for the initial appointment. I am in a lot of pain,to the point where I am struggling to walk. Is there any way I can get it moved to nearer in the future?

silverlining to be honest I was hoping my present hip would "see me out". The minor problem is that I don't know how long that would be!

Also I would be very much on my own with no relatives.

When I had my last TNR I asked a friend and neighbour to sort out my wheelie bins, which he managed once!

Hello Charleygirl, good to hear from you. Hope you don’t have too long a wait, you know the routine…. Badger politely, it often works. Otherwise if you have the money pay because our time is somewhat limited and today is the rainy day.

Thanks, that has given me confidence. I may have to have mine done privately as I am 82, live in London and will probably be lucky to be operated on when I am 102.

I already had a stairlift so used it from the moment I got home. The physio was delighted that I had one and it made life so
Much easier for me.

How soon after surgery was your stairlift fitted? I have had mine since 2009, and it is the immediate use after surgery that bothers me.

I should have an answer, but they weren't invented when I was working!

My stairlift was a godsend after my hip replacement. I had no trouble at all using it.

Has anybody who has had a hip replaced used a stair lift? I could wriggle around after my second TKR because to begin with I couldn't bend to 90 degrees. I have little room to move on it and fear an early dislocation.

Silverlining I am in the same position as you were. There were days when I thought I don’t need a THR but since Christmas it has deteriorated considerably and my mind is firmly in the yes I do camp. Maybe things will not be cured and you would delay your surgery by a very long time if you dropped out now. I have 3 more weeks to wait (🤞) but it’s 21 months since I first had contact with the consultant and closer to 3 years since I first went to the GP.

When I was deciding/ waiting for my new hip op date there were days when it didn’t hurt and I wondered whether I needed the operation or not, then there were days when the pain came back, especially after I had a guided injection, so decision was made for me, the pain post injection was unbearable.
Thing is your knee is only going to get worse, not better and suppose it depends on how much pain you can bear.
Recovery from hip surgery is probably quicker and more straightforward than knees. I do understand your dilemma.

I’ve got to decide soon whether to go ahead with aTKR. Since I saw a physio last year I was doing the exercises she gave me religiously every day. But I stopped doing them at Christmas time because the intermittent stabbing pain in my knee was permanent and I’d resigned myself to having the op. However I recently restarted the exercises but missed some of them out. Then was sofa bound for several days with a nasty cold. I then spent most of yesterday working in my garden and, blow me my knee is painless for the first time in ages. Is it the rest, the weather getting warmer? Or all the medication I’ve been taking for my cold? Rather questioning my own sanity about it at the moment .

I had my THR at the end of October and have done generally very well. However I’m still getting bursts of nerve pain over the top of my affected foot especially at night. Getting up and walking around settles it for a while but the extra disturbance at night isn’t helping. It never seems to coincide with me needing the loo. Has anyone else had this and did time do the trick or do I need to accept this as my new normal?

Topsy, just spotted your post.